With Father’s Day coming up, I thought I’d jot down 10 random things I love about being a dad.
10. Watching the kids sleep. Sure, it’s the least stressful moment of parenthood, but there’s something remarkably magical about watching their little chests rise and fall with each breath.
9. Chest-swell-with-pride time. Straight A’s, athletic achievements, etc. You know the drill. Those good times that recharge your patience after you have to snake the toilet because of toys down the drain or pull gum out of the dog’s fur.
8. The first time your kid greets you at the door when you come home from work. Nothing quite like it. You feel like you’ve liberated Paris during World War 2. “DADDY!!!!”
7. Stories at bedtime. One time, I awoke to my youngest son poking me in the forehead. I had fallen asleep while reading “Goodnight MOON!”
6. The first time your kid says, “I love you dad.”
5. Throwing ball with your kid. Actually, any time you spend with them. It can be boogie boarding, grass cutting, house painting or car washing. Riding horses or bike, hiking or doing homework. It’s about time. All about time.
4. A potty-trained child. No more diapers? It’s a raise.
3. When your kids make you laugh — intentionally or unintentionally. In our house, love = humor.
2. Childbirth. Realizing you had a part in creating a new and amazing new life (and all the terror that comes with it.)
1. The privilege of watching them grow up.