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BONUS Cartoon: The monitor
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The Shawshank Redemption
AMC played “The Shawshank Redemption” four nights in a row this week. I watched it twice. And wished I had seen it the other times as well.
There is no finer movie about the power of hope floating around Basic Cable. It’s a textbook example of how to behave when you are wronged. Don’t whine. Don’t get mad. Don’t get even. Plot your escape and get ahead. I sat there in my Bay St. Louis hotel room watching Andy Dufresne plan his escape and it occurred to me: The prison is a powerful metaphor for your mind when you get screwed over. I’ve seen people who were and chose to stay behind the walls. They just quit — and allowed the person who did it to them to be like the warden and guards. They got beat down like the prisoner who whined “I don’t belong here” (and was beaten to death by the guards.) And I’ve seen people who were like Brooks, who couldn’t survive outside of their misery even when offered their freedom. But I’ve also known people like Andy Dufresne who patiently plotted their escape. They played the game and then made their move. They got out of their prison and prospered. Viktor Frankl wrote a masterful book called “Man’s Search for Meaning” that touched on the Andy Dufresne ‘s of the Holocaust. The ones who thrived in the middle of Hell on Earth while others around them withered and died. The ones who found meaning. The ones who clung to hope.
Andy Dufresne is my hero. As he told his friend Red, “Get busy living, or get busy dying.”
That’s good advice for a Monday morning.
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On the Gulf Coast
The moon lit the Mississippi Sound, turning its inky blackness into a calm, slate gray. Four and a half years ago, that same calm water declared war on the land, leaving a lasting scar upon it. Standing on the staircase of a home that had been destroyed that day and rebuilt, I was about to give a speech to many of the men and women who had led the effort rebuild the Mississippi Gulf Coast. It was a speech about giving. And about hope.
Who was I to talk to them about the power of giving?
It was United Way Tocqueville event, an event to honor the top donors to the South Mississippi United Way. I was introduced by William Yates, the man who built and rebuilt the Beau Rivage.. And then I spoke. And spoke a little more.
As words poured out of my mouth, my mind thought of nearly five years ago.
A half-mile down the road sits an empty lot. It’s a lot I helped clear with a team from Camp Coast Care: That lot is sacred ground to me. It had been a home that had survived Camille. Nearly 40 feet of water reduced it to debris. Today, it’s overgrown with weeds and vines. But around it, new homes are springing up like mushrooms. Recovery is transitioning to everyday life.
Two weeks before Katrina, we vacationed at the the smaller of two Casino hotel buildings in Bay St. Louis. That building is now gone (the bigger tower has been rebuilt and is beautiful). The one we stayed in had to be razed after 26 feet of water wiped out two thirds of its floors. I remember that trip like it was yesterday: My wife and I drive down Beach Blvd and I remember telling her, “These houses would be perfect to own. They never got water during Camille.” The house I was standing was one of those homes. Water blew out the first floor. Today it is more beautiful than ever.
I finished my 15-minutes speech about hope and realized that I was preaching to the choir. These folks faced Hell and spit in its face. If it hadn’t been for their hope, the light of the Coast would have flickered out a long time ago.
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Stumbling into blessings
Three times I’ve badly stumbled. And three times it has turned into a major blessing. It’s funny how life is like that.
Stumble #1: When I graduated from college (with honors), I ended up as a high school janitor. The blessing: I worked with a lady who set me up with her daughter (who was at The University of Georgia at the time). The daughter is now the mother of my three kids.
Stumble #2: I got cancer. The blessing: Many good things, including The Run from the Sun, have happened to allow me to be able to help other people who have or face having cancer.
Stumble #3: I was made part-time at The Clarion-Ledger. The blessing: Ongoing. Stay tuned, though. It’s about to get even better.
There is a golden thread running through all three events, though. Attitude. When I worked hard and had a positive attitude, great things began to happen. Having a positive attitude doesn’t come natural for me. But I can tell you this much, I am a believer now. Give back, work hard and have faith. It turns stumbles into blessings every time.
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Welcome MPB listeners!
Here’s my piece HOPE: How to slay a Dragon’s Little Brother. I hope you enjoy and that it helps you as much as it has helped me. And enjoy the rest of the blog. There’s lots of writing for you to explore.
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Drawing for United Way
This is a piece of art I did for an United Way Tocqueville event I am speaking at next week on the Gulf Coast.
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CARTOON: Animal Cruelty Bill
I still shake my head in disbelief that a bill designed to protect DOGS and CATS is facing so much opposition. I think of Sparkles the dog and Luke Woodham when I think of animal abusers. I am not sure why there is a move to protect people like him.
A different kind of speech
There were no cartoons projected behind me. The topic was deadly serious. My doctor was in the room. I was at Baptist Hospital in Jackson for the first of my talks on melanoma.
It was a different kind of speech.
“I stand before you today as LIVING proof of the importance of early detection of melanoma.” I began to speak. “I’m a Sagittarius, but I swear I was born under the sign of Cancer.”
For nearly thirty minutes I told my story. A story of luck, persistence, anxiety, gratefulness and 3,600 sunrises. Ten years of melanoma survival.
“You ever have a rock hit your windshield.” I continued.”If you quickly get it fixed, you can save the windshield. Otherwise, the crack spreads and the windshield is lost. Melanoma is like that. Early detection is the best guarantee of long-term survival.”
One calculator I found figured that because of the location and depth of my melanoma, I had a 80% chance of ten-year survival. I’m almost there.
“After the Cancer, I had to find H.O.P.E.”
For thirty minutes, I stood in front of a crowd of people and talked about my biggest fear.
And at the end, I was rewarded with a miraculous sight: Two ten-year Stage IV melanoma survivors met and shook hands. (Stage IV is normally fatal). I soaked in the sight.
I smiled. Seeing their embrace allowed me to find hope after all.
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