Fit4Change Blog: Day 16 of 48

At the end of four weeks, I was nowhere near Madison Central this morning. Instead of getting up at 4 a.m. for my workout, I got up at 6 a.m. I’m in Greenwood, Missisisppi for a speech. But I didn’t skip my workout. I went to the hotel gym and ran four miles on the treadmill. Then I did 50 push-ups, 50 sit-ups and a two-minute plank.

I travel. And keeping fit no the road is tough. But this isn’t just a passing fad for me. A lifetime commitment means you learn how to be adaptable. No, it wasn’t the same as my PLS workout. But I still managed to burn 700 calories this morning.

I look forward to Tuesday when I’ll be back out on the field again with my friends. Until then, I’ll do what I need to do to make it work — even when I could sleep late.

That’s how you get to the next level.

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Scar power

Ariel Winter, the “smart” daughter on Modern Family, made my Facebook feed because she arrived on the red carpet wearing a dress that revealed part of her scar from her breast reduction surgery. Apparently someone somewhere said something and she responded back that she is proud of her scars.

So she should be.

I have nearly 100 scars thanks to various moles being removed and melanoma. Most are too small to see. The biggest is several inches long and it travels across my back. Thanks to the excellent work of Dr. Kenny Barraza and time, it has nearly faded away. But it is still there. I feel it burn occasionally. It reminds me that it is part of my story. It’s who I am.

That’s what scars are. They’re like lines on a map. They tell people what great travels you’ve had. Mine do. I’d be dead without them. So I am very proud of mine.

I get that Hollywood is superficial and worried about looks. I’m glad I live in the real world. Or at least a world where a scar is a cause for a celebration.

I think that of that when I see a wounded warrior. I know they get stares. I did early on. I just hope that if they ever read this, I know what their scars mean. It’s a badge of courage. Of honor. Of service.

And so it should be.

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Crazy Hair

My youngest son looks like his mama but has my crazy hair. Part of our morning “get out of the house so everyone won’t be late for school” routine is for me to help him tame his hair and get his teeth brushed. This morning, I wet my hand and sprinkled water on his head. A father and son. Water. It was like a baptism in a way.

Except I’m the one who was washed over with love.

Our Declaration of Independence guarantees “The Pursuit of Happiness.” TV commercials promise it if we just buy product X or Y. But sometimes it is the simplest things that bring us the most joy.

My boys bring me that joy. I guess that’s just being a parent. I guess.

I combed is hair and sent him on his way. I put away the comb and looked into the mirror. My hair was sticking up 10 different directions. I tried to tame it but failed.

And then I laughed.

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A Burpee’s lesson: Fit4Change Day 15 of 48

imageI’m  writing these blogs because much of what we do out on the field translates to everyday life. Even if you don’t get up at 4 a.m. and throw yourself around a football field, you can still learn from some of these lessons. Because sports and training is a very powerful metaphor for life. And this morning had one of the most important lessons yet.

Attitude makes the average amazing.

I’m not a Pollyanna. I don’t see kittens and rainbows when I’m being crapped on. I get mad, depressed, grumpy and sad just like you do. But I’ve figured out that when you’re going through Hell, your positive attitude will get you through it much quicker than if you’re being negative.

For example:

Our next to the last station was Burpees. Stand up. Go down on your hands and kick your feet out. (Some people insert a push-up here), pull your feet back in. Jump for the sky. Repeat.

Who invented the Burpee? I used to think Satan. But according to Wikipedia (the font of knowledge) “The exercise may have been originated by a man named Lieutenant Thomas Burpee (1757-1839). He was an officer in the New Hampshire Militia during the American Revolutionary War and was described as “having the innate Burpee fondness for martial exercises” in A History of the Town of New London, Merrimack County, New Hampshire.”

That bastard.

Anyway, we started on the goal line. From there,we went to the five and did one Burpee. Then we went to the ten and did two. The 15 was three — and so on. We got almost all the way down the football field. And the Burpees were piling up like compound interest. We were up in the 16 range, I think. I lost track.

I’m in good shape. And it hurt.

On the 50, when we were at 10, I started to say to myself, “this sucks.” But something hit me. I started saying ,”I got this. I can do this. Just make each Burpee the best I can.”

Guess what? When I said it sucked, it did. When I said, “I got this,” I did. It still wasn’t fun. But it was easier because I changed my inner-monologue.

What story are you telling yourself? What challenge are you facing where you can say, “I got this. I can do this? Just make this moment the best I can.”

I was very glad when it was over. We went on to a pretty intense core workout. Ihad that, too.

Thomas Burpee, I don’t like you. But I like the lesson your evil creation taught me this morning.

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Make today your National Signing Day

imageImagine you are 18. You’ve been recruited, sought after and now, you’re about to put your pen to the dotted line. You are being given the gift of a college education — but you’ll have to earn it. You have hours of sweat and hard work ahead of you. Long hours on the playing field. Injuries. Time in the classroom. But still, you’re being given the opportunity of a lifetime. You’re about to step onto the stage. What are you going to do with it? How will you change your life?

Do you have a 5-star heart to go with that ability?

I wasn’t a college athlete. I can’t even fathom how exciting National Signing Day is. And it has been a long time since someone recruited me for my talents. But what if we treated today as our own personal National Signing Day? What if we made a commitment to our jobs, our families, our spouses, our friends and our lives? What if we stepped onto the stage with a 5-star heart? Can you make a commitment that will change your life? The lives of everyone around you.

By waking up this morning, you were given a gift. Today is your National Signing Day. Put in the work. And receive your rewards.

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Fit4Change Blog Day 14 of 48 — Habits

It was 4:50 a.m. when I pulled into the Madison Central parking lot. I blinked, looked around and didn’t see many cars. Was it Senior Skip Day? Had the bad weather the day before scared folks off? Then the urge to skip hit me. But I got out of my car and proceeded to have good, tough workout. I was on autopilot. Even the siren song of my pillow couldn’t suck me in.

(In everyone’s defense, most everyone showed up by 6. We had a pretty good turnout)

Habits rule us. By now — 14 days of workouts later — a new habit is forming for you. That habit helped me overcome my inherent laziness.

If you want to change your life, change your habits. It’s hard. But so very worth it.

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Fit4Change Blog: Day 13 of 48

Fit4Change blog: Day 13 of 48

I didn’t write about Friday, but it was a leg workout and my legs are still sore from it, so in a way, any discomfort I had today was a leftover from Friday. So there you go. I also ran 11.5 miles on Saturday and 3 yesterday. Coming into today’s workout, my legs were spent.

So guess what we did a lot of today?

If you guessed “run,” you are a genius.

Honestly, I like running and it burns fat well for me. We did the Indian Run (which is an Indian Sprint with Line One), did bags and ladders (quick feet!) and ran four 100-yard sprints. (We also worked in the weight room on chest and arms and did stations with Coach NASCAR). My heart rate stayed way up today. I think it might have been because of the warmth (it felt like summer).

I was sweaty mess.

On the last sprint, I poured everything I had in me onto the fire. Sure, I was tired. But I wanted to prove something to myself. I could push through pain.

Pushing through pain. How many of us pull up when we’re tired? I do.

I’m at a point in my life when I can’t afford to anymore.

Today at 5:55 a.m., I hit a wall and pushed through it. I ran off the field a different man.

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Five lessons I learned from Bert Case

imageFinishing up Bert Case’s obituary cartoon got me thinking: What’s his legacy? What did he leave behind for the rest of us who knew him so well.

When I say “the rest of us who knew him so well,” I mean everyone who watched him for 50 years. He appeared on all three Jackson TV stations. He was a legend in this community. When someone comes into your living room for five decades, you know them.

Bert was family.

I had the pleasure of getting to know him a little bit over the years. We had a mutual admiration society going and I enjoyed visiting with him when I could. I respected Bert. And this is what I got from his life:

1. Love being yourself. Bert loved being Bert. Whether it was in front of the camera or out on a sandbar on the Pearl River, I’ve never seen anyone enjoy being themselves more than Bert Case. That’s why he fought sepsis for so long. Sepsis will kill you quickly. Not Bert. Bert had a lion’s will to live.

2. Stand up to the powerful. Bert respected people, but he didn’t put up with their crap either. Whether it was a mad governor or a ticked pit bull, Bert held his ground. That was a great service to a state that needs that kind of journalistic oversight.

3. Love your job. Bert enjoyed 50 years of doing what he loved to do. Life is too short to hate your occupation. And when it looked Iike he would have to retire, he continued to work and finished on his own terms.

4. Find the love of your life. Bert loved Mary. And Mary loved Bert.

5. Be an original. How many can hear his trademark “Berrrrt Case!” in your head? I can. He came up with that when someone said his name sounded like “bird cage.” I’ve lived in several TV markets and never seen anyone quite like him.

Bert was one of a kind.

And that’s why I will miss him so darn much.

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Fit4Change Blog: Day 11 of 48 — COMPETE!

Competition is good for the soul. Pick someone who is better than you and work your butt off until you can beat him or her. Push yourself beyond your comfort zone and leave it all out on the field. Use the fire of competition to forge your soul. To push your spirit. And to shape your future.

I come from the participation trophy generation. And I got a few of them along the way. But I’ve learned nothing inspires you more than receiving an award for your hard work. No, I take that back — the sting of losing does, too. Don’t beat yourself up when you do lose. Feel how bad it sucks and then lose from it.

Your worst moments can give you your best education.

I’m in Line One. They are the best athletes and I’m the Clydesdale in the midst of Race Horses. But I want to work out with them. I want to get smoked by them. Because it’s the fuel that makes me better. And I have gotten better. Today, I held my own in a 100-yard sprint. I didn’t finish first. Still, I was up in the front. I will push myself even harder tomorrow.

I’m a Clydesdale with a little bit of speed and a lot of stamina.

Winning isn’t everything. Being out on the field of life competing is. Winning is just gravy. Delicious gravy at that.

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A lion’s will to live

Bert Case has fought a 15-round battle with Sepsis and is down on his knees before the final bell. His lungs are struggling to recover — and the prognosis isn’t cheery. But Bert is tough. And Bert loves being Bert. I think the only reason he has survived as long as he has is because he has a lion’s will to live. I want the best for Bert. I also want the best for his wife Mary, who I am also very fond of. I don’t want either of them to suffer.

Life is tough. But Bert is, too. I will continue to pray for my friend’s battle and journey. And I will also be inspired by his heart.

Be like Bert. Love your life and be willing to fight for it. When that final bell does ring (hopefully years from now), that will be his true legacy.

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