How you eat an elephant

How do you eat an elephant?

Imagine you are mayor of a small Southern town. You wake up one morning worried about garbage being picked up and a couple of dogs running loose on main street. By the time you go to bed, you wonder if your town will320px-Slab_Pulled_up_in_Smithville cease to exist.

That was an actually day for Smithville Mayor Gregg Kennedy. On At 3:47 p.m. on April 27, a monster EF-5 tornado thrashed its way down main street, killing 14 and injuring many more. Businesses and homes were equally devastated. School children were displaced. The Post Office even thought about leaving. Some even questioned whether the town SHOULD be rebuilt.

They were the worst of times.

But while the tornado could destroy the physical town of Smithville, it couldn’t touch its spirit.

Today, Smithville thrives. That speaks volumes about the grit of the people who live there. They had a chance to restart from scratch. And they did. And the leadership ability of Mayor Kennedy.

I’ve interviewed Mayor Kennedy a couple of times on the radio and had the honor of seeing him in person last night. He’s a member of a rare fraternity — the EF-5 club. It’s a club that no mayor wants to be a member of. But he has gotten to be friends with the mayors of Greensburg, Kansas, Joplin, Missouri and (even though it “only” had an EF-4) Tuscaloosa, Alabama. They swapped ideas, stories and support. Mayor Kennedy and I spoke for a few minutes last night. He was sun-baked because he had been helping Mayor Will Hill of Louisville, Mississippi. If anyone could advice a mayor whose town suffered a devastating tornado, it would be Mayor Kennedy.

“We got a lot of help from others,” Mayor Kennedy told me. “It just seems right for us to give back.” Paying it forward. Now that’s a very Mississippi thing to do.

Not sure if Mayor Kennedy is a hero or a saint. But I do know he’s a guy who woke up one day with his town gone and had to figure out how to bring it back. And he did. He figured out how to eat an elephant — He ate it one bite at a time.

 

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To the MRBA

MRBASaturday will be a perfect day for the picnic. The weather will be amazing. The food will be top notch. The friendship will world-class.  I appreciate Legal and her planning abilities.  I, unfortunately, won’t be able to be there.

Tomorrow is a fundraising walk to help raise funds to beat ALS (Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis) or better known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease.  As many of you know, my brother-in-law Adam died from the disease a couple of years ago.  I will be walking next to my sister Stephanie.  I wasn’t able to last year.  My job as a brother calls me to be by her side.

That said, you’re like family to me, too.  You’ve stuck with me when others haven’t.  I’ve been proud getting to know you and be part of your lives.  I wish I could be with you.  But I can’t.

I can’t tell you how much our friendship means to me.  I’m going to rebuild the MRBA page back up on the blog. And hopefully have other events soon.  I will be at next year’s picnic come hell or high-water. Well, maybe I shouldn’t say that. We’ve had that lately.

Have fun tomorrow. I’ll be there with you in spirit.  I look forward to seeing the pictures and reading the blog.

And I just wanted to thank you again. I’m blessed to have so many great friends.

Marshall

 

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True Warriors

10312139_10154118652550721_2830591580031690613_nWhen I speak to groups, I like to talk about how good things come from our worst moments. I also like to use the grammatically challenged phrase, “When things get bad, we get good.”  I’ve seen it in my own personal life. And I’ve seen it in Mississippi after numerous disasters.  I remember working at Camp Coast Care in Pass Christian, Mississippi after Hurricane Katrina. I was joined by people from all across the United States. We had very little in common except for the desire to do good in the face of overwhelming disaster.  And it was overwhelming. Television couldn’t do the devastation along the Gulf Coast justice. It would have been so easy to be discouraged.  But we pulled together and got the work done. Things got bad. We got good.

There is a lot of division in this country today. Turn on the radio or cable news and you hear how the nation is going to heck in a hand basket.  You see finger pointing. You read hateful comments on social media. Anger wafts from the pages of the paper.   Listen, read and watch long enough and you start wanting to blame others for your own problems. It becomes easy to dislike people who don’t agree with you.

And it makes you worry about our kids’ futures.

But there’s hope. There are still warriors who understand what true competition is all about. People who get that when you’re in the arena, you give it your all — but when times get tough, you pull together.  I saw a tweet this morning that confirmed this for me.  Two historic sports rivals. One helping the other because they are in need.

Who are these warriors?

They are our kids.

 

@Tupelo High Special thanks to the Madison Central Jaguar baseball team for bringing supplies for our city’s tornado victims. GO JAGS! GO WAVE!

 

 

 

 

 

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The Storm Isn’t Over

10151238_659363017450261_3067180732604771075_nAmericans are a microwave society. We want what we want when we want it! (And we want it now.) We consume and move on. The 24-hour news cycle has been reduced to the 140 characters of a Tweet. In a blink, we are saddened, outraged, worried, happy — and then it’s over. We’re like the dog Dug in UP! — someone yells “squirrel” and we’re distracted.

Right now, there are two zones in Mississippi: Inside and outside the tornado tracks. If you’re outside of it, life is starting return to normal. The limbs have been cleaned up. The power is back on. We’re talking about Cong. Thompson’s latest remarks. The Cochran/McDaniel race is back on our radar. We might even be mad about Benghazi. Sure, we’ll get a little nervous when the tornado sirens fire today at noon. But for the most part, we’ve exhaled and moved on. But if you’re inside one of the tracks, your life has been brutally changed forever. Your house is damaged or destroyed. You may have been injured or lost loved ones. You might not even have a toothbrush. It’s hard to know where to turn when there aren’t even street signs. Your life has been literarily scattered into the wind.

Katrina was a shared disaster. It affected nearly the whole state in some form or fashion. This disaster is more localized. I write this because it’s something we need to remember. It’s easy to move on and forget those inside the tornado track. But our friends and family are still hurting. They need us.

Just because the sky is blue doesn’t mean that the storm still isn’t blowing.

 

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Saving your own skin

abcdToday is the start of Melanoma Awareness Month. No, Melanoma isn’t an Italian Lounge singer. It’s cancer of the melanocytes. Melanocytes are what give you your pigment — you can get melanoma in your eye, on your skin or even inside your mouth. It’s a particularly aggressive cancer that is incredibly difficult to treat once it spreads. There’s a reason it is the most fatal form of skin cancer. It’s a fast, brutal killer.

The good news is that it is 100% curable if caught early. Get screened. If you have a mole that is black, irregular, bleeding, itching or bigger than a pencil eraser, get it checked immediately. The dermatologist, doctor or plastic surgeon will do a simple procedure and remove the mole. Then a pathologist will examine it under a microscope. That’s when you will know for sure.

Also, stay out of the sun during the peak hours between 8 and 4. If you are out, use sunscreen or better yet, cover up. Wear a hat and UV-protected sun glasses. There is no such thing as a good tan — that’s damage. And there is enough scientific evidence to suggest that tanning beds are dangerous  so I can safely say it would be wise to stay out of them. I’m pale. But I’m alive.

I had melanoma 13 years ago. And I’m alive because I was aggressive about being screened. You should be, too. Learn what to look for. Have a loved one check you out.

I want you to have the chance of life I was given. Knowledge truly is power. Power that can save your life.

Learn more at melanoma.org

 

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Tornado cartoons

Wish I didn’t have to draw these, but am glad they bring comfort to folks. Mother Nature is at best, temperamental and cruel.

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SHORT STORY: Chainsaws & Casseroles

042510 Sunday Tornado1Hail pelted the armored SUV nicknamed “The TANK.”  The driver nervously steered into the teeth of the storm while the navigator quietly examined the radar on his laptop. In front of them, a giant mile-wide wedge tornado thrashed across the Mississippi countryside.

“It’s a MONSTER!” the driver yelled over the roar of the hail. “Look at that wedge! Check the map, Dr. Z. Are we headed the right way?!?”

The Dr. Z, the navigator, looked over his reading glasses and calmly said, “Yes Mike. But I don’t need a map. The tornado is headed toward Desoto Flats. It’s my hometown.”

Dr. Z, or Jimmy Zacharias, was the grandson of Greek immigrant Apostle Zacharias. Apostle moved to Desoto Flats, Mississippi after World War II and opened a hardware store.  His son, James, inherited Zacharias Hardware when Apostle died of a massive heart attack.  James’ son, James Jr. was to take over for him.  At least that was how it was supposed to be except that James Jr., or Jimmy as everyone called him, loved the weather.  He was fascinated by an old Indian legend said that the love and sacrifice of an Indian squaw for a European explorer protected Desoto Flats from tornadoes.  Jimmy studied weather from the time he was a young child.  A scholarship offer from the University of Oklahoma was to be his big break in to the weather business.

Except that his father would have nothing to do with it.

“Who will take over the business?!?  I need you! I forbid you to go,” his father screamed on that fateful August night.

“And you can’t stop me,” Jimmy yelled as he slammed the door in his father’s face.

Those were the last words he had said to his father in over 25 years.

Jimmy excelled at meteorology. He graduated with a 4.0, earned his masters and then his doctorate. He specialized in tornado formation and spent many hours chasing massive storms on the Great Plains. His big break came when Hollywood producers approached him about a new reality cable TV show called “Tornado Hunters.”  An acting coach helped him lose his southern accent, a network executive suggested he change his name to Dr. Z and Hollywood created a cable TV legend.

Dr. Z was a star. And like a star, he was lightyears away from Desoto Flats.

The Weather Network, a cable network based out of New York, hired Dr. Z to be their lead forecaster/storm reporter.  Dr. Z’s fame quickly rose even higher. If Dr. Z showed up in your neighborhood, you knew doom was not far behind.  Dr. Z used his charm, scientific knowledge and rugged good looks to woo America and chase tornadoes.

Now he could do nothing as he chased one right into his old hometown.

“OMIGOD.” he mumbled.  His heart sank.

The TANK navigated through the downed trees, debris and fallen power poles. Dr. Z looked for familiar landmarks.  None were to be found. The Pemberton Elementary school was gone. The Courthouse, built after Sherman had burned the old one, was leveled. Zacharias Hardware was gone. People walked in shock around the town square.  It looked like a scene from “Walking Dead.”

Mike pulled the TANK over and he, Dr. Z and the cameraman got out to render aid.  People first, tornadoes second was their motto.  Dr. Z watched as the tornado roared over the horizon. Judging by the apocalyptic damage, it had to have been an EF-4 or 5.

Dr. Z pulled out his cell phone. No bars. He threw it down and then dug through the TANK for his satellite phone. He called his assistant in New York. “Jan, this is Z. We’re in the middle of Mississippi. Tell the boss we need some aid send down here.  Tell him to pull some strings. Call the damned President. And tell the boss I’m also taking some time off.  I have some work to do.”

Jimmy looked around at what was left of Desoto Flats. God’s finger, as he called tornadoes, had destroyed over 100 years of history in seconds.

Mike put a compress on an older lady’s head. Dr. Z recognized her as Anne Smith, his old Sunday school teacher.

“Mrs. Smith,” Dr. Z called out.

Mrs. Smith weakly said, “Jimmy?”

“Where are my parents?”

Mrs. Smith shrugged. “You seen my kitty, Jimmy?”

She was in shock.

Dr. Z ran toward his parent’s house.  The Victorian home had been built strong and had a storm cellar. He knew there was a chance his parents had survived.  Bodies littered the streets.  He pulled out the satellite phone again, “Jan, tell them there are mass casualties, too. WE NEED HELP!”

Dr. Z had lost his calm, cool demeanor. Even his southern accent started coming back.

He ran to the corner on Main and Stonewall Street looking for his parents house.

“MOM!  DAD!  MOM! DAD!”

He was quiet for a second to hear any reply. The town was eerily quiet.  The smell of pine burned his nose.

“MOM! DAD!  MOM! DAD!”

He heard scratching coming from where the storm cellar was. It was covered with six-feet of debris.

Dr. Z started throwing boards out of the way.  He then stepped on a nail which went through his foot  but the pain didn’t stop him.

“MOM! DAD!”

Fifteen minutes later, he pulled open the steel door. There, in the darkness of the cellar, were his parents. All three broke down in tears. The Prodigal Son had come home.

As they walked back to the TANK, Dr. Z called out to his crew. “Hey! I want you to meet my folks!”

“You have parents?” Mike said with honest shock. “You were actually born and raised somewhere? ” Dr. Z had kept his past very private.

Now, though, he hugged the two people he had missed so much. “I’m sorry. So sorry.”

And then a miracle happened. As the town crawled out of the rubble, church vans full of people with chainsaws and casseroles arrived to help Desoto Flats, Mississippi. Nature had done its best to knock the town down. But it was lifted back up by the compassion of strangers. Dr. Z smiled. Why had he run from this? Why had been gone so long?

Dr. Z held his parents and smiled. The storms he had chased for years finally led Jimmy Zacharias back home.

 

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When things get bad, we get good

The Southeast faced a grim tornado forecast. And we were in its crosshairs.

How grim? Storm chaser Reed Timmer arrived with all three of his Dominator chase vehicles, tornado filmmaker Sean Casey cruised near Tupelo, Jim Cantore mentioned Mississippi repeatedly and Jackson’s Weather Channel Tor Con number was a nine out of 10. I wouldn’t have been surprised to see the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse cruising down I-55.

Unfortunately, the forecast was right. April 28, 2014 turned out to be a bad day. A very bad day. A day that carved its name into the record books with a deadly combination of brutal wind, rain and blood.

Louisville, Tupelo, Brandon, Richland, Pearl, Gluckstadt, Canton, Lake Caroline, and Vicksburg all suffered devastating damage. Every time a thunderstorm would form, it would drop a long-track, wedge tornado. We watched helplessly as radar-indicated hook echoes stalked our towns. Television meteorologists barely got time to take a breath (when they weren’t having to run for cover themselves). We ducked and covered. We prayed. It was a day when Mother Nature showed us who’s boss.

As dawn broke on Wednesday, the true scope of the damage raised its ugly head: The blown-out Winston County Medical Center. Bob Boyte Honda’s collapsed roof. Damage to homes and businesses in North Tupelo. The crumpled mobile home park in Pearl. Roofs in Lake Caroline peeled off. Cars tossed like toys. Trees snapped. Steel bent. Homes destroyed. And tragically, precious lives lost.

We go through life dumb and happy until a storm like this punches us in the mouth. Days like Tuesday remind us that our lives can change in a heartbeat.

Mississippi took a beating. A very bad one. But before the sky could clear, we did what we always do. We began helping each other recover.

We did it after Hurricane Katrina. We did it during the Mississippi River flood. We did it after the Smithville and Yazoo City tornados.

I’ve joked that before you can crawl out of the rubble, there will be a church van full of people with chainsaws and casseroles. There’s a lot of truth to it. It’s why we’re constantly the most generous state. It’s one area where we have empathy. We know disaster and how to recover from it.

Today, the pictures in the newspapers, online and on television look grim. Lives and wreckage are scattered randomly on the ground. But the healing has already begun. We’re donating food and clothing. We’re giving blood. We’re helping with the clean-up. Checks are being written. Friends and family are being lifted up. We’ll get through this disaster. We always do. Because while we’re powerless in the face of nature, we’re very powerful when it comes to compassion.

People around the country sometimes challenge me to say something good about Mississippi. My answer? Compassion in the face of disaster.

Because in Mississippi, when things get bad, we get good.

 

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Monday MRBA Free-For-All

Rough weather predicted for this afternoon and evening. Stay safe — and remember this is what Saturday looked like!

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Stormy Weather

DesotoAs I write this, severe thunderstorms are off to my west. Arkansas and Oklahoma are picking up the pieces from last night’s killer storm. Meteorologists are predicting a 90% chance of doom — and the pucker factor at a 7 out of 10. There is a moderate chance of chaos and my stomach is in knots.

The forecast models are similar to the day the Yazoo City Tornado cut across the state and the storms that caused the 1979 flood.

Yes, it’s another severe weather day in Mississippi.

Or as we call it Spring.

I admit, I get a little freaked about tornadoes. Part of it was because of the wicked tornado in the Wizard of Oz. That scared me more than a 1,000 flying monkeys. And part of my neurosis is because of a very real tornado that took down my basketball goal as it flew over my parent’s house.  The early 70’s were a violent time for tornadoes in North Georgia.  They left a mark.

I don’t care Sam I Am, I don’t like tornadoes with a goat or in a boat.

So living in the heart of Dixie Alley (the southern version of Tornado Alley) doesn’t make for stress-free living. I was scared crazy after the first few tornadoes hit after I moved here. I used to freak when a tornado was 50 miles away.  My weather radio would go off if a cow farted in Port Gibson. I’d have to scrape myself off the ceiling.

But I’ve mellowed a little bit. Maybe it is fatalism setting in. Maybe. Now if it is one neighborhood over and heading another direction, I go back to sleep.

Today, though, I’m paying attention. I’m watching the radar and am keeping an eye to the sky. I want to take a moment to thank all the meteorologists for their hard work during this outbreak. I know we give the TV weather folks crap when they cut into our favorite programs because a tornado is tearing up a bean field — but believe me, if your house is near that bean field, you are grateful. And the folks at the National Weather Service do a great job. And I also wanted to thank all the first responders who will dig us out of the rubble.  Thanks to the emergency management teams who are coordinating any potential response necessary.  I hope you are bored today.

Tornadoes show man’s weakness in the face of nature. But our response shows our true power is our compassion for fellow man.

 

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