Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: March 7, 2014

81ZjagjIv0L._SL1500_It’s Fit2Fat2Fit Book Club Friday.  This week’s book is The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do by Charles Duhigg . I loved it. It’s a well written and accessible book with dozens of interesting case studies and stories as examples. Duhigg’s premise is that we’re governed by habits. Habits that make our brain’s job easier. (for example: Driving a car becomes a habit. Could you imagine how tired you’d be if you had to concentrate every mile you drove? When was the last time you thought about brushing your teeth?) And the really good news is that habits can be changed. First, you have to figure out what cues make you perform a certain habit. Does stress make you eat sweets or smoke? Does anxiety lead you to the bottle? What can you do to replace the bad habit when you feel the cue coming on?  There are also important habits called Keystone Habits. By changing one Keystone Habit, you can change your life. One of my Keystone Habits is getting up every more and doing PLS training.  And according to the book, it’s easier to change a habit if you have a group who will hold you accountable (the book uses AA as an example).  For me, my group is my PLS line.  There are cues (seeing my running shoes setting by my bed.). Rewards (being thinner and the endorphins).  My bad habits still exist (drinking Cokes and being lazy). But my new habits are now stronger, making the bad habits fade into the background. Good habits help strengthen will power, which will spill over into your life. If you work out, you won’t want to eat junk food. Or smoke. Or drink. You learn how to focus on a goal.

Take a hard look at your life and see where you need improvement. Find one or two keystone habits and then watch other areas of your life change.  I highly recommend the book. ***** out of five stars.

Today’s workout started with eight minutes on the treadmill.  I did 7.0, 7.5 and 8.0 mph.  Then we ran, did pushups, did step ups with weight, ran suicides, did Supermans, ran Gauntlets with 25-lb. weights.  It was a tough day — mainly because it was the end of the week. I’ve been on the road all week but managed to make every workout.

It’s a habit. And a darn good one.

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: March 6, 2014

ScaleThere is a time of reckoning in all our lives. Lorna Luft

It was our own little mini time of reckoning today — we weighed in. I figured I might go up in weight. But I didn’t.  I lost another pound.  That means I’m now down 12 in nine weeks. And I have another 10 to lose.  My goal is to weigh 200 lbs.

Today I weigh 210 pounds.  I’m 6’1″ tall and have a size 34 waist.  I’m overweight according to my BMI index (28) but mainly because I have packed on more muscle than I normally carry.  I can run 15 miles and survive a 1-hour PLS workout in line one.  If I’m not in the best shape of my life, I’m darn close.

I thought about that while pushing a towel across a sticky JSU basketball court.  That would have killed me two years ago.  I enjoyed it today. I thought about it as I was skipping rope.  I used to not be able to skip rope. I thought about it as I was running 8 mph on the treadmill. Couldn’t do that two years ago either. The workout has gone from a chore to a challenge. I enjoy a challenge a lot more.

My next goal, a goal I’ve taken on for Lent, is to clean up my diet. I travel and am tired, so the temptation to eat junk for quick energy is there.  I have to quit that.  I need the energy. That’s the next level I’m striving for.

I don’t believe in diets. I believe in life changes. It’s time to make another life change in my life. And it will start with what I cram into my pie hole.

Ten pounds in three weeks.  That’s a pretty lofty goal.

 

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: March 5, 2014

ashesAshes to ashes, dust to dust. 

I worked out on Fat Tuesday (yesterday) to avoid being fat. I worked out this morning (Ash Wednesday), to postpone being ash.

Death is coming. It could be here today. Or I could live to 100. My ticket could be punched any day. But until that day comes, I will strive to be in the best shape I possibly can be. Because I want to be more than just alive —  I want to truly live. And being fit and healthy is a key component of living.

That said, I worked-out on three and a half hours sleep this morning.  I got in late from Oxford last night and the alarm came early. I’m as smart a squash this morning. But I went to the gym anyway.  I leaned on my line mates to pull me through. And they did. I didn’t want to let them down. And they lifted me up.

There were a lot of burpees and mountain climbers.  We ran a lot, too.  I ran 8.0 mph on the treadmill and could taste the Red Bull I drank last night (that stuff is like poisonous cough syrup — but better than hitting a tree or bridge embankment). I sweated poison through my veins.

But I did it.  Because exercise is now more than a habit — It’s part of my life.

And it will be until I am ash again.

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Vasti’s Rock

RockI believe people are placed in your path for a reason. Some inspire you. Some infuriate you. They either sink you or push you in another direction. They are the rock your life’s raft hits.  And yes, hitting that rock is sometimes painful.  I mean really, being pushed out of your comfort zone is, by definition, uncomfortable.

I interviewed blues musician Vasti Jackson yesterday on my radio show (Now You’re Talking on MPB Think Radio, Monday’s at 10 a.m.).  A brilliant singer, songwriter, producer and musician, Vasti is known as a demanding guy to play for. Not because he is a bad guy —  just the opposite. He has high standards.  I asked him how he got those standards.  He told me the story about his early years as a musician. His family was musical – -he had natural talent. A guitar was always around.  He played up until he was in his mid-teens.  And then one day he was in a recording session with an instructor.  Vasti played well, but didn’t know all the notes.  The instructor stopped the session and told him that until he learned how to read music, he would have to get out.

The instructor was the rock that Vasti hit.

He could have sank Vasti’s musical dreams. But instead Vasti got serious about his craft. He learned it and his musicianship was carried to a whole new level. He became a professional and set exacting and high standards for himself and those who he hired. He explained why he demands so much from a drummer for example. “They are the floor. They are the base of the whole song — so they have to get it right,” he said. A friend told me that there was no rehearsal with Vasti. You know the music coming in or you don’t. Vasti explained that if he is paying a musician $100 to play a song with 100 notes, he or she can’t come in and hit 75.”

That is import to all of us. How many of us only hit 75% of our notes every day?

Vasti then said something that really resonated with me. “A talented musician can have a terrible work ethic and attitude and not get brought back. But an average musician with an amazing work ethic will always get the call.”

How many people do you know who succeed because of their attitude?  Their work ethic?  Their professionalism? I had to look in the mirror on that one.

I was named most talented in high school.  My talent has taken me across the country and to the edge of greatness. But with the changes in the my profession, it is no longer enough.  What if I raised my standards? How high could my career soar?

Vasti’s words were an epiphany for me.  It’s time to improve my professionalism. To get the little things right.  Vasti’s instructor was a rock that sent him off in a better direction. And his story definitely inspired me to do just the same.

It’s time to learn the notes. It’s time to be a pro.

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The Adventures of Sherlock Stokes

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In honor of April

Yellow_daffodils_-_floriade_canberraAfter all the glamour and glitz of last night’s Academy Awards, I’m going to tell you about someone you probably don’t know.  She’s not a celebrity. Oh no, she’s more special than a celebrity.

April DeLoach is a mom, an educator and a wife. She has multiple friends because her personality draws people to her like a moth to a flame. I met her like many Mississippians meet: On the little league ball field. Her humor would light up the field at dusk. Her love for her family would warm everyone on a cool Spring night.  April’s life was just like yours or mine until one fateful day she noticed bruises.  Bruises that would not heal.

Bruises caused leukemia.

She is young. I don’t give out ladies’ ages but I will say she is much younger than I am. Cancer struck her during the prime of her life.

It’s not fair. But cancer never is.

Her ability to write brought her struggles and triumphs to all her friends who followed her on Facebook. We’d cheer. We’d fear. But mainly we prayed. And prayed a lot.  Life was a roller coaster for her and her family. And we were in the car with her.

We prayed for her to get well. For her doctors’ to find a cure. For a stem-cell match. For safe operations. For strength for her amazing husband Trey. Trey and April have two great kids. It’s not fair for a kid to have to face what they have.

As I write this, she’s facing grave odds. Her soul is strong but her body is tired. She’s on the cusp of eternal glory.

It’s not fair. But cancer never is.

April is one of my cancer heroes. She lived. Really lived. She loved her family and practiced her faith. And inspired us all in the processes.

April is the month when the world springs back to life.  So on this cold, gray Monday, may we honor April DeLoach by springing back to life and truly living, too.

Note: April Heath DeLoach passed away at 4:42 a.m. on March 4, 2013. She courageously battled leukemia and the side effects of the stem cell transplant with heart and faith and was an inspiration to us all. God bless her and her family. 

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MRBA Free-For-All

Yesterday Summer. Today Spring. Welcome to the bipolar South.

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: February 27, 2014

treadmillWe started with running a giant nipple drill (not as sensual as it sounds), then we ran ladders, sprints and the Gauntlet. We jumped on the treadmill (8 minutes at 7.5 mph) and then finished with a bear-crawl drill in one of the aerobic rooms. It was a heart-pumping, lung burning workout.

Most people think of workouts as just a physical activity. But there is a real mental component to it also.  Fatigue makes you mentally weak. It allows things to get inside your head.  We are like oranges — you can tell what’s inside of us when we are squeezed.

I’ve been squeezed a lot the past three years.  I have a lot more work to do.

 

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Fit2Fat2Fat Blog: February 26, 2014

Live for something bigger than yourself and set lofty goals. That will help you keep perspective on the bad days.

I was there today and worked my butt off. Other than that, I have nothing else to say.

 

 

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CARTOON: Mayor Lumumba 1947-2014

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Mayor Frank Melton’s death on election night was terrible. But I never would have predicted that current Jackson Mayor Chokwe Lumumba would pass away less than a year into his first term. It’s just shocking. And sad.

Prayers go out to his family. And to all in the city of Jackson.

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