Marshall Laws

1375133_10153315760315721_1186428641_nMy running time is my thinking time. That’s when I ponder most of the big things in life. Those things that govern how I see the world and what motivates me to keep pushing forward — even during the tough times.  I just jotted down 10 of the ways I try to live my life. I probably could do 100 — but I think 10 is a good start.

 

While I was running, I was trying to sum up how I see life. Here are ten ways I try to live:

. Marshall’s Law #10: Look for the best in people. You’ll occasionally be disappointed but most often, you’ll be greatly rewarded.
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Marshall’s Law #9: When you take yourself too seriously, trust me, you are alone.
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Marshall’s Law #8: It’s not what happens to you. It’s how you react to it.
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Marshall’s Law #7: Everyday is a gift. Let your hard work be your thank-you note.
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. Marshall’s Law #6: You are the sum of your closest friends.
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. Marshall’s Law #5: The worst moments lead to best — as soon as you stop viewing them as “worst moments” and start as “opportunities.”
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. Marshall’s Law #4: When success brings arrogance, is it truly success?
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. Marshall’s Law #3: Truth is always the best option — and easier to keep up with.
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. Marshall’s Law #2: If people don’t know you, they won’t pay attention to you. Get out in the community!

Marshall’s Law #1: Giving back to the community is not only the right thing to do; it’s smart business.

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 16

I lost another 2 lbs. Which considering that I’m putting on muscle, I’ll take.  I’ve been eating cleaner (who wants to pour sugar down the gas tank of a Ferrari — or in my case a 1979 Firebird?). That’s paying off, too.  I’m leaning up. That’s a good thing.

I tweaked my left shoulder today, so I’m glad it is Thursday (which is like Friday). I’ll run over the weekend and try to allow it to heal. I’ve had bad shoulders since some injuries I suffered playing high school football over 25 years ago. Between my knees and shoulders, I really am working out on borrowed time. Ice and ibuprofen are in my future.

It’s been a tough week. But as I was kicking the board’s ass this morning, I felt very good. You look for small victories out on the PLS training field.  That’s an attitude that you HAVE to take into the rest of your life. It’s how you get through any kind of Hell that comes your way.  I tell people that PLS is mental training.

It helps you get to the next level.

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CARTOON: Hattiesburg

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SHORT STORY: The Lottery Ticket

Lottery-BallsIn the little South Carolina town of Kudzu, the local weekly newspaper’s headline screamed the big news in 144-point type: WINNING LOTTERY TICKET SOLD IN KUDZU.  One Kudzu resident was now $400 million  richer (over 30 years) or $233 million if he or she decided to take the lump sum. But just who was the winner was the mystery. Because South Carolina is one of the few states that allows lottery winners to rename anonymous, the residents of Kudzu looked around and wondered.  And wondered. And wondered some more. Who won it?  Who held the winning ticket?

Oh, the ladies at the Dye-Hard Beauty and Tanning Emporium had their theories. So did the men at Bob’s Butcher and Barber Shop. So did the three policemen and four men at the volunteer fire department. Even kids at the Kudzu Elementary School (Go Little Vines!) had their favorites. Soon there was a betting pool that would’ve made Las Vegas jealous.  Several names rose to the top.  Finally, after a week of intense gossip and speculation, it boiled down to three names:

Johnny Issac — Age 20, high school drop out and cashier at the Kwik and Sip Food Mart.  Johnny had bought at brand new Camaro SS, raising many eyebrows.

Katie Simmons — the 30-year-old old librarian at the Kudzu Public Library.  Within the past week, Katie had started dressing better and wearing makeup.

Frank Fredricks — the 56-year old deputy Fire Chief. He had bought a brand new Chevrolet Silverado pickup truck and put his house up for sale.

All three would see their lives change radically in the next few days. All three would be under intense scrutiny by the ladies of the Kudzu Garden and Bunko Club.

Katie Simmons noticed that the cashier at the Piggly Wiggly was eyeing her groceries a little closer than normal.

“I see you’re buyin’ name-brand food these days there Katie.  And steak? You’re living high on the hog for a librarian.”  Madge the cashier double checked every item four more times. Katie grabbed her bags and ran to the car.

Frank Fredricks noticed two teenage boys going through his trash.  “Git!” he screamed as the boys scattered.  He went out to the curb and noticed his papers scattered on the ground.

Johnny Issac kept getting pulled over by the Kudzu PD.  “Now what is it officer?” Johnny said with a frustrated tone.

“You had better watch you mouth, boy,” the officer said as he checked around in Johnny’s back seat.  Nothing. Even the great Kudzu detective could find no clues.

Three days after the big announcement, the mystery was no closer to being solved.

Then, on the fourth day, a check arrived at Kudzu High School (Go Big Vines!). An unsigned type-written note said plainly, “Please accept this cashier’s check for $4 million dollars to set up a scholarship fund for the graduates of Kudzu High.”

The teachers and principal were convinced it was from Katie Simmons. Obviously a librarian would care about education. The local president of Kudzu Saving and Loan (where your savings grow like kudzu) checked the banks records. But whoever sent the check had used another bank.  Katie denied it vehemently.

The mystery continued.

On the fifth day, the Kudzu Fire Department received a brand-new $1 million fire truck.

The firefighters looked at Frank Fredricks with intense suspicion. “It’s you, ain’t it Frank,”  the chief inquired.

Frank just shook his head.

The mystery deepened.

On the sixth day, a sign out from of the Kwik and Sip Food Mart read, “FREE GAS FOR AS LONG AS SUPPLIES LAST.” Some kind benefactor had agreed to cover the town’s gasoline bill.

The crowd outside of the station stared at the young man in his new Camaro.

“It’s not me, I promise,” he meekly said as the crowd tightened around him.

Nearly a week into the “GREAT LOTTERY MYSTERY” (as the headline read in the Kudzu Daily Times), the townspeople were no closer to finding out who the winner was.

And that’s exactly how the winner wanted it to be.

From her desk at the Mayor’s office, Wanda Gables peeked out the window and smiled as she watched the crowd outside of the Kwik and Sip fight for free gas.  Wanda, who was 56 and widowed, liked her privacy. And now that she was a multimillionaire, she had decided to drive Kudzu crazy with speculation.  She smiled and chuckled as she looked at the ad for the fine house in Charleston. The diversions had worked. Now it was time to for her to leave Kudzu under the cover of confusion.

The great Kudzu Lottery Mystery never was solved. And that was just fine with Wanda Gables.

 

 

 

 

 

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 14

title-fall-fitness-12-weekSometimes life requires action not words.  And today’s workout was like that. It was hard. Very hard. And many of you (that I saw) just did the work.  You didn’t complain. You just busted your butt.

I’m proud to workout with you.

 

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 13

Fall has arrived and with it, cooler temperatures. Lying on the dew-covered fake grass was almost a shock this morning.  But thankfully Clark found a way to warm us up.  Speaking of warm-ups, I now run 1/2 mile before we even start to loosen up my legs.  As it gets cooler, my legs are getting tighter.  Stretching is becoming more of a priority. The pre-workout run is actually a zen-like experience where I get to focus on getting my mind ready for the next hour.

Clark’s core exercises were tough this morning. But then again, rain is wet and the sun comes up in the East. You kind of expect it.  I screwed one of them up to the point where I know he was frustrated with me.  Honestly, I was trying to make the exercise harder than it was — I guess I don’t expect anything to be easy with Clark.  Also, I’m as dumb as a sack of hammers at 5 a.m.  That said, my core is as strong as it has ever been.  I can tell by looking at it, but my back has noticed it, too. Back pain after long trips has gone the way of the passenger pigeon (which are extinct if you didn’t know.)

Morgan had a nice tricep burnout lined up for us. I got through it pretty well — once again, I can see my progress.  Half burptitle-fall-fitness-12-weekees, dips on a chair, bear crawls, plank raises, and jumping jacks for a bit of a rest.

The weight room was good. Mike pushed me again. He’s very strong and usually chooses weight I’d probably avoid. Probably my best exercise today was incline bench press.

We then went and ran the W-drill and with a new twist: With 25-lb. bags.  I told my friend Beth (who is one of the best athletes out there), “We used to weigh this much.”  I’ve lost 50 lbs. She has lost over 100.  It’s little psychological tricks like that that help you through the tough times.

We then finished out with an Indian run.  I could have run all day — which was good because we knocked out a mile and then had to run two 100-yard sprints to finish today out.

It was a good workout today.  Partly because of the cooler weather. But honestly, I heard a speech from a Marine who served in the South Pacific. His name was (he has passed away) Eugene Sledge and wrote an amazing book about his combat experiences. On the island of Peleliu, he was on the island for several weeks. It was grueling duty, with 24-a-day combat and temperatures over 115 degrees.  He said he once heard a football player talking about “how tired he was.” He said, “I then cried a room full of tears.”

It’s about perspective.

 

 

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MRBA free-For-All

Happy first week of fall. We’re being rewarded with some amazingly cool weather.

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The License Plate

I carefully unscrewed the old license plate, took it off my car and held it in my hand. It was dirty but still proud.  On itagjpg-5ea575cb2a666dcft was the Biloxi lighthouse.  The very  lighthouse that was the symbol of the aftermath and recovery from the hellstorm known as Katrina. It was one of the few surviving structures along the Mississippi Gulf Coast.

Then I looked at the new plate — Mississippi: Birthplace of America’s Music.  I like it. It looks good on my car.  But it’s just not the same.

Mississippi_license_plateDon’t get me wrong. I’m VERY proud of Mississippi’s creative culture. Like gold in a mine, it is one of our most precious resources. And I am relieved that it is not only being celebrated, but recognized for the economic asset that it is.  Our artists, writers and musicians make this state special.  I’m thankful my new license plate promotes them and the valuable work they bring to table. It’s about darn time.

But the lighthouse plate was special to me. I remember how proud I was when I put it on my car. It symbolized what we, as a state, are capable of.  Memories of how we came together during that dark time were triggered every time I looked at it.  How when things got bad, we got good.

Then I saw the golden thread that tied the two plates together. We are good when we give to others. We succeed when we share our blessings and talents.  That’s our treasure. That’s what makes Mississippi special.

I tightened the screws on the new plate, stepped back and carefully wiped the dirt off the old one. I’ll save it in a box where I keep a few Katrina mementos. Then I looked back at my shiny new (and very expensive) car tag and realized this basic truth: It’s not what’s on the plate that matters. It is what it represents.

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 12

title-fall-fitness-12-weekLeg cramps suck. The worst case of them I’ve ever had was from mile 20 of the Marine Corps Marathon to the finish line. I hit the ground.  It’s pain I won’t soon forget.

My right calf started to cramp when we were doing 100 calf raises with Clark.  But it didn’t. Of all the crazy-ass things we did today, I’m most proud of that.  No cramp = Big victory.

Beth, Liz and I handled the tire in Morgan’s station. How I didn’t leave my back on the turf is a miracle.  But we survived. One of the times, we pushed/pulled the tire — like the mother of all boards. Then we noticed other groups carrying it.  So we carried it the other.  That went quicker.

I do weird stuff at 5 in the morning. I really do. In fact, I don’t even bother to tell my wife what we do. There is no use trying to explain it unless you are there.

The weight room was leg-centric today. Mike pushed me and I even jumped on a box without busting my butt (and shins). I’m not famous for my vertical leap.  I am gravity-challenged.

I can do a good inchworm. My crab walks still are crappy. My frog leaps are decent. Donkey kicks make me sore.  Today was a solid leg workout.

But I’m don’t have leg cramps.

You take your victories where you can get them

This week was one of my favorite weeks at PLS yet.

 

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 11

title-fall-fitness-12-weekLet me hit you with a headline:

Medicaid seeks budget increase of $143M

Let me repeat it:

Medicaid seeks budget increase of $143M

One more time to let it sink in:

Medicaid seeks budget increase of $143M

That’s $143 million dollars that could go to education. Or about anything else in the state budget.

But it’s not.

Medical expenses are soaring. You know that. You’ve been to the doctor. You’ve watched your insurance cost more and cover less. It’s easy to hate Obamacare, but it’s equally easy to realize the system is broken — and breaking further.

I worked out for an hour this morning. I ran a 1/2 mile to warm up. I did planks, pushups and leg lifts. I did drills, lifted weights. I got my heart rate soaring.  I ran up and down stadium stairs.  I came home and skipped banana-nut bread and ate oatmeal.

I took charge of my health.

I am 45-years old and don’t take any medication.  My blood pressure is below normal and my cholesterol hovers under 150.  My body fat is down and my mind is clear (for the most part.)

Let me throw this at you one more time:

Medicaid seeks budget increase of $143M

We have GOT to start taking control of our own health.  I’ve had cancer — I know there are times when you need a doctor. But I’m going to do everything I can to make sure I do my part to keep medical costs down.

Something has to give. And it starts with me.

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