The Resolution

It was New Year’s Eve at St. Mercy’s Memorial Hospital, but no one on the Intensive Care Unit floor felt like celebrating.  It had been a stressful night; three patients decided 2011 would be their last year on Earth.  ICU Nurse Jennifer Collins walked back to the her station and sat down, exhausted.  She sipped on a cup of coffee and looked at the monitor for room 12A.  The old man’s vitals were stable (thankfully).  Maybe she could ring in 2012 without any more drama.

The old man was veteran of World War 2.  His daughter said he had come home from the war, started a family, worked in the community and had become a civic leader. That he was a good man. A church-going man.  But time was doing what the Germans never could; the old man was losing his final battle.

She saw him in his sterile room, wired to every machine the hospital could throw at him and breathing shallowly.  In the chair next to him was an equally old woman just staring at him.  She had been up during visiting hours every night he had been on the floor.   Nurse Collins smiled. She hoped she would find true love like they had apparently found.

Suddenly an alarm went off. The old man started thrashing around and pulling at his tubes stuck in his arm. Nurse Collins bolted from her chair and was in his room in less than five seconds.  She calmed the old man and started to reattach a couple of his IVs.  As she silenced the alarm, the old man started to speak.  “The Resolution.” he croaked.  “The Resolution!”  His wife held his left hand and stroked his forehead.

“What’s he talking about, ma’am?”

The old man’s wife looked at the nurse and said, “I honestly don’t know.”

The old man said, “The coffee can in the garage. The Resolution!”

And on that New Year’s Eve, a mystery began to unravel.

A quick phone call to their daughter retrieved the coffee can from their house a few blocks away.  With nurse and the daughter looking on, the wife pulled a piece of paper out of the can and began to unroll it.

Jan. 1, 1945. Bastogne, Belgium

Today I resolve to be a better man. To give up my wicked ways. If God allows me to survive this frozen Hell and the German artillery, I will turn over a new leaf.  I will start a new life.

Sgt. Red Getty

The older lady was puzzled. She started to explain, “It’s his handwriting, but his name is not Red. Or Getty.  He’s Sam Michael and he was Corporal.  I know he was injured severely when a shell went off right next to his foxhole in the Battle of Bastogne. He spend nearly a year with his face bandaged.  I didn’t meet him until 1947. He didn’t talk much about his time in the war and never about before it.  All I know is that he was an orphan.”

In the bottom of the can was a key.  The old man looked at the three women and said, “chest in the garage.” The daughter headed home before he could gasp the last word.

When she returned, three women looked at the old chest. The daughter’s hand shook as she unlocked it. Inside were a couple of medals and a few old yellowed newspaper clippings, a photo and other assorted papers.

Nurse Collins picked up the newspaper clipping and read the first one aloud:

July 1, 1940 Nantucket, Massachusetts.  Heir to the Franklin Oil Fortune, Fredrick Franklin III was arrested for the suspected murder of socialite Francine Kelley.

The man’s wife, looked at the picture. “It’s him. I can’t believe my eyes, but it’s him.”

The daughter picked up the second clipping.

December 9, 1941: Nantucket, Massachusetts. Suspected murderer and heir to the Franklin Oil Fortune, Fredrick Franklin III, is missing.  Police found his Chrysler submerged in local bog, but no body was found.

There, once again, was the old man’s picture, grinning and wearing a tuxedo.

The daughter then pulled a letter out of the chest and read  it aloud:

“Dearest Son, I can’t tell you how much you have sullied the family name. Your drinking, womanizing, gambling and lying have gone on long enough.  You will disappear and join the Army under the name that I have secured for you. If you survive this godforsaken war, you will no longer be part of this family. You are disowned.

Your father.

The old lady sat down, weak from the shock.  Nurse Collins looked in the chest and pulled out a photograph. There was a group portrait of the 101st Airborne.  There, in the corner of it, were two men.  One was the old man. The second was another man — a Corporal with the old man’s name.

The daughter pulled out another newspaper clipping from The Boston Globe:

January 28, 1945: Boston-area man,  Sergeant Red Getty, dies January 2 in the Battle of the Bulge.  Local resident severely injured.

Beneath the papers, at the bottom of the chest, was a black diary.  The daughter pulled the book out and read the first page aloud. What she read caused all their jaws to drop.

“If you are reading this, you now know my secret.  In 1945, my foxhole was hit by a German 88 shell.  My buddy, Corporal Sam Michael was killed instantly. I was severely injured.  Before I passed out, I placed my dog tags on what remained of Sam’s corpse.  His head was gone, so there was no real proof of who he was.  He was an orphan and had no family. So at that very moment, I decided to kill off the wicked Fredrick Franklin once and for all. I was evacuated back to England and it was the end of the war before I got out of the hospital. By that time, no one remembered what Sam Michael looked like.  I vowed to start over and live a Christian life. A life of redemption. I pray that I succeeded.  I’m very proud of my daughter and my wife. And I hope that God has forgiven me for Francine’s death.  It was an accident. An accident caused by an arrogant, cocky little boy in a man’s body. I pray I kept my most important New Year’s Resolution of all.

The three women stared at the old man lying in the bed.  He looked at them and a tear flowed down his wrinkled cheek.  And before they could say another word, the alarms went off a second time. 2011 had claimed its final life.

Fredrick Franklin III  had given up his wicked ways and led an amazing life.  And as the clock struck midnight, he kept his most important New Year’s Resolution of all —  and he was finally forgiven.

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Saturday Free-For-All

Like Samoa, I didn’t have a Friday today.  Sorry — it has been a busy day off.

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Thursday Free-For-All

Good morning, what’s up?

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The Foundation

One of the first things I discovered when I moved to Central Mississippi was Yazoo Clay.  It’s soil so expansive that it destroys both buildings and roads alike.  Add moisture and it expands.  Dry it out and it contracts.  A foundation built on this demon soil will soon crack apart, wrecking anything built on it. It’s like dog poo except without the value.

Yazoo Clay runs in fingers. One house can suffer from it while the neighboring one will be fine.  Homeowners curse it. Realtors dread it. And construction companies make a fortune off of it. You dig a hole in your backyard, pour in your life savings and cover it back up — only to have to come back and fix it again.  Recently, we made solid fix to our home’s foundation.  And it got me thinking how fixing a foundation of a house is a great metaphor for life. How you have to take care of the things that aren’t seen to really live a good life.

Our lives are like houses built on Yazoo Clay.  Bad times — dry times — can cause our lives to sink. If we’re not anchored to bedrock, to something solid, then we just float with the whims of our day to day lives.  Our lives crack and then break apart under the stress. It seems like we spend so much time on the superficial. On what is seen by others and we neglect our foundations. But it doesn’t matter how fancy the structure is, if the foundation isn’t solid, the structure will crumble.

Here are the steps for fixing both a house foundation and a personal one.

1. Call in the “Engineer.”

The House: People will tolerate a few cracks in their sheetrock or a few doors sticking. But serious foundation problems can cause busted water pipes, broken masonry or worse.  At that point, you contact a structural engineer to come out and measure the house, to see how much the foundation is off level and to make recommendations on how to fix it.

The Person: It’s amazing how much we tolerate in our lives. I call it the comfort zone — change is so amazingly scary that people avoid it to their peril.  But there comes a time — whether it is health problems, a job loss or a spouse drawing a line in the sand — when you realize your personal foundation needs to be fixed.  At that point, you call in the “engineer.”  The engineer could be a doctor. A physical trainer.  A financial counselor. A member of the clergy.  Someone to take your hunch and put hard numbers to it and to suggest a solution. Go to the doctor, and she will suggest you are 25 pounds overweight and need to go on this specific diet. Meet with a physical trainer and he will tell you that you’re out of shape and need to this workout plan to get your heart rate down.  A financial planner can help you organize your finances.  Call in the expert.  Turn the gut feeling into a set of facts.

2. Find Good Company.

The House: Find a good company to do the work.

The Person: Find good company to support you when you do the work.  I’ve always heard you’re the sum of  your five closest friends. I thoroughly believe that. Surround yourself with people who can inspire you and believe in you while you are making the changes in your life.

3. Dig to the bedrock.

The House: Dig pilings deep to the bedrock so the foundation can rest on a solid footing. Otherwise, your foundation will continue to float with the whim of the Yazoo Clay.

The Person: Set your personal pilings on your core beliefs. Believe in SOMETHING.  Faith is a good place to start. Have a set of principles that guide you during good times and bad times.  Not having guide lines to live your life by is like sailing without a chart and a compass. You’re at mercy of the wind.  Set goals. Have standards. The Bible says it well in Matthew 7: 24-27:

The Wise and Foolish Builders

24 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

4. Jack it up!

The House: At this point, the construction crew will level the house — but beware, things will break during the leveling. Pipes will come detached. Windows will break. Boards will comes undone. Shingles will warp.  Just remember these are all minor inconveniences and short-term pain for the long-term gain.

The Person: When you “level” your life, there will be things that change.  Some friendships will end. Others will blossom. Things built on a broken foundation will be affected by your fixing the problems in your life.  If you are out exercising, you might miss some of your favorite TV show. Or you might not go hang out with the guys at the bar if you’re at home for family game night. Be prepared that every change brings forth more change. But in the end, remember you’re fixing your foundation and that your life will forever be changed for the better.

5. Have a good warranty.

The House: You’ll have to make some minor adjustments in the future. Make sure you have a good warranty.

The Person: Sometimes, your foundation might slip, settle or change. If it does, make the necessary adjustments and reset your footings back on bedrock.

6. Make it beautiful.

The House: Go back in and repair the damage.  Fill cracks, caulk gaps and repair masonry. It’s foolish to do this before you stop the movement. But now that it is level and solid, make your house as beautiful as you can be.

The Person: Go forward and fix your relationships.  Build a great life based on your stable foundation.  You’ve gone through the pain. Now fix the cracks. Live life to its fullest. Make it as beautiful as it can be.


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Wednesday Free-For-All

Good morning. Hope you have a great day!

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The Once-A-Year Best Year Awards Program

2011 strutted down the red carpet to the massive auditorium. Cameras flashed hungrily at the celebrities heading toward the gold-plated door. There, every year since the beginning of time, was the “The Once-A-Year Best Year Awards Program”.

2011 looked into the big room and could see many of his idols.  Over by the stage, chatting with 1958, was 1941.  “Think of all the fear 1941 whipped up! Pearl Harbor alone was enough to get Hall of Fame status,” thought 2011.  Then there was 2001. The 9/11 attacks — 2011 admired 2001’s ability to scare the crap out of people. But over by the exit was 1929, 1930, 1931, 1932 and 1933.  When it came to economic chaos, well, those guys were the best.  2011 searched his pocket for a notebook. He wanted their autographs. He had tried hard to be like them.

2011 swaggered down to his seat and waited for the program to begin. He knew he’d receive an award for his notable achievements. Flood, famine, fires, economic chaos — he had done it all.  His heart swelled with pride.  He looked at his ticket and found his seat on the front row.

Dick Clark, holding an hourglass, walked out onto the stage and introduced a small toddler.  “Before we honor 2011, I’d like to introduce 2012. He’s our latest brother and I wish him the best of luck.”

2012 crawled out onto the stage and into the spotlight. He grabbed the massive microphone and began to speak with amazing clarity for an small child.

“I’d like to thank 2011 for making me look good.  After the chaos you caused, I can do nothing but be better.  Now some of you, particularly the years of Mayan descent, believe that I’m going to bring the end of the world. That’s balderdash.  What I will bring is hope.  Opportunity.  And joy to anyone who seizes it.  I’m proud to be one of your brothers and I can’t wait to report back this time next year with nothing but good news. 2012 will be the best year ever.”

The Years broke into applause.

2011 slunk down in his seat, mad that he had been shown up by a child.  1979 sat down in the seat next to his and put her arm around him. “Can I buy you a drink? I like your style, btw. Especially the economic malaise part. Even Jimmy Carter was impressed.”

It was time to ring out the old and ring in the new.  A new year had taken the reigns. The auditorium sang Auld Lang Syne, confetti fell from the ceiling and champagne flowed. The celebration of the ages truly began.

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The Knight’s Dungeon

Lightning bounced between the gloomy clouds, illuminating the gray countryside below.  The periodic flashes also revealed a dark, moss-covered castle perched on a rocky mountain.

Inside its thick, impenetrable walls was a cold stone interior with hundreds of rooms and hallways.  In the middle of the structure, easily defended against any outside enemies, was a spiral staircase.  Down several levels, burrowed deep within the mountainside itself, was a dungeon.  And in that dungeon was a single knight.  He was held to the dark, moist stone wall by mysterious shackles. And only one person held the key.

The castle was his anger.  The shackles were him choosing to hold on to that anger. If the knight had decided to let it go, he’d have been released instantly.  But his heart remained dark and he continued to hold tightly to his grudge — and it held on to him tightly. He would remain prisoner in his dark dungeon until he realized he held the key to his freedom.

The knight could have defeated any force attacking from outside. But in the end, he was living proof that sometimes your worst enemies are within.

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Tuesday Free-For-All

It’s Tuesday but it feels like Monday!  Hope you have a great week.

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Monday Free-For-All

Good morning. Hope you have a great week.

Monday’s Prayer: Allow me to learn from the lessons of 2011 to have a better 2012.

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Christmas Free-For-All

Merry Christmas and thank you for the blessing of your friendship.

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