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Love & Bacon: Learning the secret of wife
The old man’s face had more lines on it than a New York City road map. He sat at the oak kitchen table, watching the love of his life make her breakfast. The light from the sunrise was making her face glow. It shaved off 50 years, making her look like the beauty she was on the day they married. She scrambled her eggs in the bowl. Even after fifty years, she was stunningly beautiful. He grinned like he was up to no good.
He used to be the most selfish man in the world. Ask any woman he ever dated. He laughed. Time and mistakes had worn down his rough edges like water smooths a stone. And love. Love — A verb, not a noun. But he didn’t know that in the beginning. He thought he could just say the word and that would be enough. His stupidity had run off two women who got fed up with his selfishness.
Then he met her. She was a force of nature. Eyes as blue as glaciers. A temper like a Cat. 5 hurricane. But she was the most grounded person he had ever met. Fifty years ago, they said “I do.” He was lucky that day. He was lucky today. But there were rough days in between.
All marriages are like the weather — There are beautiful days and there are storms. Many of the storms were brought on by them being selfish. And much of that selfishness came from the fact that he misunderstood what love was. It was more than a word. A hug. It was an small, tender action. It was seeing that she needed help with the kids. That she was overwhelmed. He had to learn how to anticipate what she needed and preemptively solve it. She needed to see him trying. That was a hard lesson for him to learn. One that caused trust to be eroded. There were many nights of blank stares and silent storms.
He took a sip of coffee as he watched her fry the bacon. Bacon. He couldn’t have any because of his heart, but that was OK. Everything goes better with bacon.Their marriage included.
He could have filled a book with his mistakes. But he was a much wiser man now. It had taken years to rebuild their relationship. And it wasn’t easy. But it was a choice they both made. Not just for the kids. But for themselves. They had seen too many people stay married and remain miserable. They were committed to the institution of marriage — and that institution meant working at theirs. Love was a verb. A verb that brought trust. And trust created a bond that made them inseparable. A marriage based on words could be easily broken.
The old men at the coffee club teased him. They said he was whipped. But they weren’t as happy as he was. And at the end of the day, that made life worth living.
He took one more sip of his decaf and realized that “I do” wasn’t just two words. It was a lifetime of action. He continued to find new ways to do for her. He had learned the secret of wife.
He looked at the love of his life, ate his bran cereal and planned how he could steal a piece of bacon when she wasn’t looking. Everything was better with bacon.
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The Mississippi Way
Watched the Republican debate last night. I listened to the President talk about his Jobs Bill. Much talk is coming from D.C. about fixing the economy. I’m sure eventually a solution will come from Washington. Eventually
But I’m not waiting for it. That’s not the Mississippi way. Did we wait for the cavalry to come after Katrina? No. We (as the Governor said) “Hitched up our britches.” We figured out a way. It’s time to do that again. Me? I’m getting smarter. I’m reading books about new career opportunities. I’m working harder. I’ve bought a few thousand gallons of midnight oil.
I hope the Federal Government gets their act together and stops making it harder on small business owners. On the people who will start hiring again. But this recovery isn’t coming from D.C. It’s coming from us. It’s coming from the innovators. The creative people. And Mississippi is full of creative people.
Things will turn around. And it’s up to us to make it happen.
That’s the Mississippi way.
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The Town
There was no rush-hour in the Town. It had a rush-ten minutes. Automatic opening doors opened slower. People from the City were forever walking into them. People just walked slower in the Town. They talked slower, too. The heat must have done that. You could take a deep breath and break a sweat. People knew your name. They also knew your business. Get up in the middle of the night and your neighbor would ask, “were you sick? Your bathroom light was on at 2 a.m.”
When you lived in the Town, you didn’t need voter I.D. The lady at the polling place knew your mama. “Who’s your mama?” That was the first question you were asked when you came to the Town. The second one was “Where do you go to church?” It wasn’t hard to find one of those. There was a church on every corner. The tallest object in town wasn’t a building. It was a water tower.
Mosquitoes landed at the local airport. So did crop dusters. Data on the internet traveled slower than gossip on the front porch. The information superhighway was the path between Molly Grable’s house and her neighbors. People elected politicians just so they could talk about them. Children left to go to college. But eventually they came home to raise their families. The local schools succeeded because the parents cared. And high school football? It was the second religion in the Town.
There were challenges. The big box store opened on the bypass and the local businesses were under siege. The local hospital was having funding problems. And the mayor was always concerned about the tax base. But like the giant oaks next to the courthouse, the Town would survive. It would always be there. It had deep roots to keep it alive.
Yes, it was a small town. But life in the Town was anything but small.
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The air freshener
The lady walked into the bathroom and looked around. It looked like something you’d find in a third-rate truck stop. And smelled worse. Even flies gagged when they entered it. But over in the corner was an air freshener. It was placed there to try to cover up the mess. It was an olfactory bandage on the fact the room had not been properly cleaned. It took 30 seconds to place the air freshener on the counter. It would’ve only taken a few minutes more to clean the room.
She thought about how many air fresheners she had in her life. How many messes had she just covered up? Then she thought about the stress that all of those messes were causing. She was putting a lot of air fresheners on the counter.
She went back and sat at her desk. She looked at the loose piles of papers. The unanswered e-mails. The things she procrastinated about. She thought of her closet. It was a mess. She just closed the door — an air freshener.
She thought about all the messes in her life. And she made a list of ways to start cleaning them up.
No more bandages. No more air fresheners.
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