Thursday Free-For-All

Thank God it’s Thursday. Or something like that. Have a great day.

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Spotlighting the good

Heroes at the top. Shooter (who shall not be named by me) at the bottom.

The Clarion-Ledger did something noteworthy yesterday and the editors deserve a little praise. Instead of plastering pictures of the shooter (who shall not be named by me) all over the top of the fold, there was a story of three heroes who sacrificed themselves to protect their girlfriends.  The shooter (who shall not be named by me) was in a small picture at the very bottom of the page.  It was a subtle move and a small gesture. But since the shooter (who shall not be named by me) sought attention, it was good to see those who deserved the limelight got it instead.

Batman is a comic book hero and I guess it would be easy to say that there are no such heroes in real life. But there are. The police who took the victims directly to the hospital after the shooting to save their lives.  The people who are dedicating their time and resources to help aid the victims.  The victims who sacrificed themselves to protect other. Heroes do exist.

One of my favorite pictures is from the prayer vigil at the theater on Sunday.  The clouds above the theater form what appears to be an angel.  I’d like to think that that’s a sign that good has emerged in the face of pure evil.

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Fit-to-Fat-to-Fit Blog: Time

I don’t have time to exercise. I make time.  I get up and run way before most people hit the snooze.  I’m not saying this because it makes me superior. Or special.  It’s the only time I can get in my hour of exercise.  It’s my choice. I roll out of bed at 4 a.m. ready to run.

I work from 6 a.m. until 10 p.m. during the week.  And usually 8 a.m. until 10 p.m. on the weekends.  There’s no way in the world I’d be able to pull off hours like that without being in good shape.  I know — I tried it when I weighed 248 lbs. and drank sodas for cheap energy. And it nearly killed me.

Exercise gives me time.  An hour invested every day allows me to get more done in the other 23.  I have more energy. More stamina. More ability.

So I view exercise as an investment.  And the payoff of that investment allows me keep moving forward. I won’t work hours like this forever.  But believe me, as long as I am, I’ll make sure I keep exercising. I don’t have time not to.

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Wednesday Free-For-All

It is Wednesday, isn’t it?

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Fit-to-Fat-to-Fit Blog: An Ounce of Prevention

I had to take off a pair of jeans today. They were too big, too baggy and didn’t fit me. They were size 36s. That’s a long way from the size 41 waist I had back in January.

One reason why I’ve tried to reduce the amount of body fat I have is because of the threat of cancer recurrence.  I’ve read studies in the past that seem to hint that the higher body fat you have, the more likely you will have a melanoma recurrence. Melanoma, the deadliest form of skin cancer, is very difficult to fight once it comes back.  (although you need to read the story of Kevin “Stenny” Stenstrom who has had it recur twice and beat it back both times.)  Also other types of cancers are linked to obesity: Esophagus, breast (postmenopausal), endometrium (the lining of the uterus), colon and rectum, kidney, pancreas, thyroid, gallbladder, and possibly other cancer types.

Been there, done that. Got the scars to prove it. Don’t’ want to go back to Cancerland.  Nope. Nevermore.

So I run.  And watch what I eat.  Because I know that Benny Franklin was right: An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure.

Today, I ran 5.18 miles, burned over 860 calories today. For 2012, I have burned 64,428 calories while running. That’s a lot of calories.  And I probably sweated off another half-dozen pounds today because of the humidity. We’re getting into the miserable time of the year for running.  It was nearly 80 degrees at 4:45 a.m.  To quote my friend Meteorologist Ethan Huston, It was Mother Nature’s morning breath.  Very apt description.

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Rising from the ashes of their own shame.

Championships are played for on the field. But the sign of a true champion is what happens off it. Penn State has been handed a golden chance to prove they are true champions.

The school was severely punished yesterday for the coverup of the Jerry Sandusky scandal.  The NCAA and the Big Ten hammered them with a series of sanctions that will leave the program gutted and hobbled for years.

But now it’s the next day.  The dust has settled and the University, Coaches and Players have started picking up the pieces. I’ve already heard one alumnus say ‘I’ll double my contribution because we were wronged’  (Um, Penn State wasn’t wronged, the victims were). Let me just say this, if they have any hope of recovering, that attitude can’t prevail.  Why? Being mad at the person you perceived ‘wronged you’ will do nothing more than hold you back.  Admitting there is a problem is the first step of recovery. (And Penn State had a major problem.)

New Penn State Head Coach Bill O’Brien (hired last January) woke up this morning with a heck of sales job to do. His players can leave for other schools at any time. So he has to convince them to stick around. He needs to make them believe that Penn State represents all the good things that everyone used to think it stood for. Character. Integrity. Excellence on and off the field. He needs to find his team leaders and lean on them.  And then he needs to start the mother of recruiting programs.  He has to start laying the foundation for tomorrow (this time solid) today.

The fans need to accept the what happened and move forward.  That alumni who I mentioned before needs to give money because he believes in the school — not because he’s pissed that the NCAA ‘wronged him.’  I can tell you from personal experience, being mad at someone because they wronged you is like trying to drive forward with the parking brake on. Rally around the school because you believe in the future — not because you’re mad about the past. The walk-ons and scholarship players will need Beaver Stadium to be full and rocking for support.  And the school will need the revenue generated to pay the fines.

While Penn State made their own bed and are lying in it,  they don’t need to lie there forever.  They have an opportunity to show the world that they are indeed true champions.  And  yes, it can be done. I’ve watched so many individuals and organizations come back from bigger disasters than this self-inflicted one.  The school now has the chance to rise like a phoenix from the ashes of their own shame.

Let’s see how Penn State handles this. Let’s see if they can rebuild a football program based on the integrity we thought they stood for before. And then we’ll know if they truly are champions after all.

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Tuesday Free-For-All

It’s trash day!  I mean, Tuesday!  Have a great day.

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Near-Death Penalty

Today was the day of reckoning (one of many I’m sure) for Penn State due to its handling of Jerry Sandusky’s abuse of children. The NCAA punished the school with a Near-Death Penalty (which in some ways is worse than Death itself.) Sixty million dollars in fines. A four-year bowl ban. Loss of scholarships. Five years on probation. Wins vacated from 1998-2011 (which means Joe Paterno has been bumped to 12th on the all-time win list.) The NCAA will allow current players to transfer. The punishment was swift and harsh: The whole football-first culture has been effectively ripped from the ground. And now, Penn State’s football program will be hobbled for years to come.

So be it.

It will take the victims years longer to rebuild their lives.  To quote NCAA president Mark Emmert “No matter what we do here today, there is no action we can take that will remove their pain and anguish. But what we can do is impose sanctions that both reflect the magnitude of these terrible acts and that also ensure that Penn State will rebuild an athletic culture that went horribly awry.

I’ve been fascinated by people’s reaction to the penalties on Twitter and Facebook. At the end of the day, I think it’s important to remember the NCAA isn’t to blame for the penalties handed down today. The people who turned their heads while children where being harmed are.

I pray for the victims of Jerry Sandusky. I wish Penn State all the luck in the world rebuilding a healthier athletic culture.  And I hope other colleges and universities learn from the Penn State’s horrible mistakes.  Winning isn’t everything when a child is harmed in the process.

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The Dark Knight Rises

It was Sunday noon. The parking lot was already filling up as my sons and I headed to the movie theater’s box-office.  On the sidewalk was a police car.  It was the first reminder of the tragic events of last week.  I can’t remember ever seeing a cop at that movie theater at 12 p.m. on a Sunday.

We bought our tickets, picked three of the available seats and settled in for the nearly three-hour movie.  Lights dimmed and the Dark Knight rose.  I watched every single person walk in the theater like a hawk.  Two of the most precious people in my world sat next to me.

Thirty minutes into it, there was a gun battle on screen.  My mind was jarred away from the action as I thought about the victims in Aurora, Colorado. This had to be the point where the gunman walked in and began shooting. Could it happen again? My rational mind quickly settled my irrational mind.  I closed my eyes for a moment and said a quick prayer.  Then escaped back into the movie.

The Dark Knight Rises is long, complicated, ambitious and a visually rich movie.  And there are some pretty powerful messages in it — I particularly liked (slight spoiler) Bruce Wayne’s fighting back and strengthening his will.  The movie is entertaining and has a very satisfying ending.

After the lights came back on, the boys and I walked to the car. We were excited about what we had just seen — talking rapidly about what we liked the most. But then, I thought about the victims again.  I guess the lesson to take from the tragedy is to live your life in the moment and enjoy it to the fullest because you never know when that moment will be your last. My sons and I had just done that.  I started the car and we headed home.

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Fit-to-Fat-to-Fit Blog: Goals

Goal Weight: 195 lbs.

Ah, the ever elusive “Goal Weight of 195 lbs.” I lost 40 lbs. in the first 12 weeks of the year. Then I lost another 10 and have been in a holding pattern since.

The last three pounds have been taunting me.

Honesty moment: I’ve never been a good goal setter.  I’ve achieved great things in my life, but many of them because of persistence and dumb luck.  I’m so right-brained and this is one area where it really shows. Unlike Hannibal in the A-Team, I’ve never said, “I love it when a plan comes together.” Yes, I knew I wanted to become an editorial cartoonist. And yes, I did everything I thought I had to do to become one. And I achieved my dream. But I never said, “I’m going to do A by this date, B by this date and break C into micro goals to be completed by this date.”

I think of what I could have accomplished if I had been more focused.

Exercise is a great laboratory for goal setting.  You can learn, experiment and implement. Pick a goal like running a marathon, break it into smaller steps and the achieve each one of them. Like the old saying goes, “How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.”

My life has gotten way more complex and busy now.  I need goals, deadlines and self-motivation more than ever.  I’m going to take what I’ve learned from exercise goal setting and apply it into my daily life.  Creativity and discipline are going to have to learn to get along.

So it’s time to:

1. Take the time to set a big, measurable goal.

2. Break that goal into smaller, achievable goals.

3. Put dates on all of them.

4. Give myself a reward when I accomplish them.

5. Get busy.

My first goal is to start setting goals. My second?  I plan on losing those last pesky last three pounds.

Today is a “rest” day. I slept until 5:14 a.m. and it felt decadent. Usually I take Sunday off, but Saturday’s rain forced my long run to Sunday.

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