The Little Things Make the Biggest Impressions

560534_10153267996880721_817291016_nIt’s really the little things that make the biggest impressions.

Like a cricket for instance.

My family walked into the National World War II Museum in New Orleans on Sunday.  The first thing we noticed when we walked through the doors was a giant plane suspended from the ceiling.  The Douglas C-47 had the same paint scheme it would have worn on D-Day. It was an impressive display.

Then we saw a much smaller display — an older man (who was probably well into his 80’s) sitting behind a small table.  He beckoned us over and asked my sons, “You boys know what a cricket is, don’t you?”

My boys stood there quietly for a second, trying to figure out what the trick was to his question. As the standoff continued, I noticed an 82nd Airborne pin on his collar.

“You were in the 82nd Airborne?” I asked. I knew he had jumped out a plane similar to the one above us.

“I’m still in the 82nd Airborne,” he quickly replied with a grin. He then focused his attention back to my sons.

“So, you boys know what a cricket is?”

My middle son replied , “A bug?”

The volunteer smiled and said, “Yes. But it is much more. Imagine you’ve jumped into Normandy on D-Day. It’s night and a man comes toward you. You have to find out if he is friend or foe.  You can’t just ask him. So you take this out and do this.”

He pulled out a small brass device and clicked it once.

“You’re separated, hungry and nervous. You’re lost. You need to find your friends.  And if he is one of your friends, he will do this.”

He then clicked the clicker twice. The little device made a sound that sounded like a mechanical cricket.

“Now, what happens if he doesn’t reply?”

My son said, “You shoot him?”

The volunteer said matter-of-factly, “Yes, you kill him before he kills you.”

My sons all held the cricket and clicked it themselves.  As they did, they could see the man in front of them jumping out of that giant plane. They walked a mile in his paratrooper boots. They understood D-Day a little better.  He morphed from a senior citizen into a hero.

We toured the museum and were impressed by the big exhibits. We loved the B-17 Flying Fortress and the Sherman tank.  And the Tom Hanks 4-D movie was amazing. But it was the little things that gripped us: The last letter written by a Marine on the day he was killed. The Kbar knife with a bullet hole in the handle (that saved a Marine’s life). The telegram informing a mother that she had lost her precious son. The oral histories of how average Americans coped during the war. Two actual Medals of Honor. Hattiesburg Medal of Honor recipient Jack Lucas’ wallet. The display of soldiers that showed how few troops the U.S. had at the beginning of World War II compared to Japan and Germany.

Five hours later, we walked out and the hero had gone home. I know we’ll probably never see him again. But for a brief moment, a World War 2 paratrooper and his cricket allowed us to understand history a little better.

Because it really is the little things that make the biggest impressions.

 

Update: The National World War 2 Museum announced today (1/15/15) that Tom Blakey has joined so many of his fellow World War 2 veterans in the great beyond. God bless a great man who brought World War 2 to life. 

 

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 8

When I go to Madison-Central football games, I sit in the stadium watch the team and cheer when one of the players crosses the goal line. That’s my goal-line, by-the-way.  I own that #$%#$. I know the thrill of crossing it.

I’ve left my blood, sweat and fears out on that field.  I feel like I have a connection to that patch of artificial grass.  I’ve run that track. I’ve sprinted up that stadium. title-fall-fitness-12-week

Today we ran gassers with the 25-lb. bag. We did lots of burpees, an Indian run, wall sits, and wall stands (imagine standing on your hands for over a minute.)  I sprinted up a hill.

Paul Lacoste was out, so we skipped the weight room. My healing aching back was thankful for that one. So we did six stations instead of the normal four + weights.

The toughest drill of the day was pushing the boards.  We did five and back, ten and back, fifteen and back, twenty and back and twenty five and back. In between, we threw in burpees.  Imagine being bent over and pushing a 1×4 across the wet artificial turf. It’s a stout workout for your core and legs.

On the last 25-yard leg, I crossed the finish line and felt joy.  I didn’t score six-points, but I felt relief like I haven’t felt in a while.

This week was a rough week. It was good to finish with a touchdown.

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9/11 Today

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A college freshman was in first grade on September 11, 2001.  Two of my three sons weren’t even alive.  It’s hard for kids to understand why we mark this day. The crazy post-9/11 world we live in is their “normal.”

I wrote this story two years ago to explain it to my sons.  I thought I’d share.

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 7

title-fall-fitness-12-weekPlease excuse me, I wrentched my back today doing weights. It was the the machine where you thrust upward with the weight.  I tried to do it the way I thought I was supposed to and my back folded like a folding chair.  It was ugly. It feels ugly.

But you work through stuff like that.  It will be better soon and I will stretch it, put heat on it and keep eating ibuprofen like Tic Tacs. It will heal. I will play through the pain.

You see, that’s how we roll.  We don’t quit on the field.  We don’t quit when we hurt. We don’t quit when buildings are on fire and the world is crashing down around us.

Today is 9/11.  It was 12 years ago that we watched Hell come to life on live television.  But for all the chaos Bin Laden tried to cause, he totally failed.  Yes, he caused loss of life. Yes, he scared us. Yes, he cost us trillions. But we came together. We fought through the pain and rebuilt.  We saw inspirational first responders put others first. And while it was the darkest time, it was also one of the brightest moments in our country’s history.

Does my bad back compare to the pain of 9/11? Um, no.  But I know I come from a people who fight through tough times.  I can handle a little pain.  It’s what we do as Americans.

Side note: Chips & Salsa made its return appearance.  Imagine putting your feet on a Chips & Salsa tray and then pulling yourself forward with your hands. It was a good time had by all.

 

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Past 9/11 Cartoons

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 6

title-fall-fitness-12-weekExercise doesn’t just improve your body. It also sharpens your mind.

My goal this 12 weeks is to perform better when I’m physically and mentally exhausted.  To learn to stay focused on what is truly important and allow the small stuff to slip past by me.

I didn’t do that well today.

I slept three hours last night. Why? I’m very worried about the health of a couple of family members who are close to me. I could have slept in — but I didn’t. I showed up and did the work. Yes, I made mistakes — and I paid for them.

I ran off the field disgruntled; mad primarily at myself. But I fought through my fatigue. A journey to mental toughness requires days like today.

I’ll never get athlete of the year. But by God, I’m not going to quit.

And that’s half the battle.

 

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Ink Spots Blog: Mondays

20091199361854677801Garfield hates Mondays. And just about everyone else does, too.  Mondays are the Brussels Sprouts of days.

And for years, I hated Mondays, too.  But no more. I see them for what they are: A gift.

Before I get started, let me tell you, I’m not a shiny, happy person. I’m not naturally positive. I don’t automatically see the best in everything. I am sarcastic, sardonic and at times a grump. Someone once asked my wife Amy what it was like living with someone who was funny all the time. She replied, “I have no idea, too.”

But I’ve come around on Mondays. I think it gets a bad wrap. Sure, it’s the day after the weekend. And who doesn’t love a weekend!  That’s when time is ours. We get to play and have fun and laugh.

Mondays seem like the cold shower of days.

But I said “seem.” After many years of soul searching (yes, I found it — I have a soul), I have discovered that Mondays really are pretty cool. Through years of research, I’ve discovered Mondays are another word for opportunity.

I’m not being a pollyanna. I’m not blowing smoke at you, either.

Mondays are a gift.  Whether you think they are a bad gift or a blessing is strictly up to you.

I’m going to make the best of mine.  How about you?

 

 

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Fit2Fat2Fit Blog: Day 5

OK, so 80% of success is just showing up. But who wants to make a B?

This morning, I was darn lucky to jtitle-fall-fitness-12-weekust show up.  I could list at least 10 solid excuses why I should have slept until 6.  But everyone has an excuse.  What makes a person is better is overcoming those excuses.

I was exhausted out on the field today.  I got through Clark’s core workout pretty well (you would not believe how much better I am at this than I was two years ago.) Morgan’s drill was tough because I can’t crab walk for squat. I have a bad shoulder and it hurts like hell to do it — but like I said before, what makes a person better is overcoming excuses.  My arms were toast by the end of it, though. Right in time for the weight room.

I work out with Mike. Mike is stronger than I am, but I like that. He pushes and encourages me.  I’m getting a lot more out of the weights than I have in the past.  I had flashbacks to football training as I benched (although the weight is a lot less than when I was 18.)  It was a triceps intensive workout today. I feel it now as I type.

After the weight room, we heaved the weighted blue ball down the field. It was a glorified 200-yard sprint.  We did that twice. And then I stumbled through the last drill, which involved 50-yard sprints.  I ran nine miles Saturday. I couldn’t catch my breath today.

At the end, Paul read the poem, “Man in the Glass” (one of this favorites.) Here’s the last stanza and the meat of it:

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years
And get pats on the back as you pass
But your final reward will be heartache and tears
If you’ve cheated the man in the glass.

I didn’t just show up today. I didn’t cheat the man in the glass. But I know I can do better.

I want an A. I will work harder tomorrow.

 

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MRBA Free-For-All

It’s time to workout. It’s time to get stronger. It’s time to get better. #mondaymantra. Good morning!

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Banjo is a news anchor

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