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End of the world?
“Dad, is it the end of the world?”
“Why?” I replied, “Did your mom just find out you didn’t clean your room like she asked?”
“Seriously, dad. You know, the Mayan’s prediction and what’s going on in the Middle East.”
I thought for a second and realized we were headed into serious territory. I remember me being terrified of nuclear war and killer bees as a child. Then I thought about the end-times documentary I watched on Netflix. And I thought about the news coming out of the Middle East these days. I answered as honestly as I could, “I honestly don’t know, buddy. The news is scary. But that’s really nothing new. Think how scary it was when your grandparents were your age. They had World War II. But we can’t be scared about something we have no control over. We just have to live our lives to the fullest every single day we are given.”
My son looked at me and said, “My friends don’t believe you are a cancer survivor.”
I was a little humored that it had come up in discussion on the playground, but then said, “I can come to show-and-tell and take off my shirt if that would help.”
“Nah, that’s OK. You know how pirates pooped on a pirate ship?”
“Hopefully not in their pants.”
We laughed and then he explained how pirates went to the bathroom on a pirate ship.
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Fit-to-Fat-to-Fit: Declaring victory
I don’t love running. I love how running changes my life. But somedays I really really like running. This morning really wasn’t one of those days. My back was sore and I felt nauseous. But after the first mile, I felt better and managed to get my 5.11 miles in before I got back to the house.
Somedays are like today. You just do the best you can and push ahead. I finished, got a cool drink of water, stretched, hit the shower and got ready for the coming day. I plowed through an uncomfortable run, declared victory and moved on.
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Pipsqueak
Right now, I’m watching an eight-week-old, four-pound puppy trying to drag a bigger-than-her shoe across the kitchen floor. It really is comical — but there’s not much about Pip that isn’t funny. She’s tiny, very dark and has white teeth like a vampire bat. She likes to attack my leg and has a God-given ability to turn just about anything into a toy. She has survived one incident with a closing door without a scratch. The good Lord knows we couldn’t handle any more dog drama after what we went through with Banjo.
Ah, Banjo. I’ve missed the big lug every day since he died.
Pip won’t replace him. And honestly, I’d never put that kind of pressure on her. But what she has done is remind me of a very important lesson:
Yes, I lost Banjo. But I found Pip. She is my little brown and black reminder that the living have to keep on living.
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Manhunt
Michael Dowda, a Parchman escapee, is lose, armed and dangerous. His odyssey reminds me of a time many years ago when I was a student at Bells Ferry Elementary School. It was a time when our school was locked down because of an escaped prisoner.
The prisoner was getting dental work done and overpowered the guard. He stole his gun and ran to the house behind the clinic. There, a man opened the door and the prisoner shot him in the face, killing him.
Our community promptly went into lockdown as the police began their manhunt.
If I had looked out the windows, I would have seen policemen guarding the school. When the buses finally did roll, we were followed home by patrol cars. Bloodhounds went down the road behind our house. The criminal, who stayed fairly close to where the murder occurred, tried to break into my dad’s gas station’s bathroom. And he was finally captured in a dumpster behind a local shoe store.
I think we held our breath for 24 hours.
I was probably eight. Yet, I remember it like yesterday. Hopefully Dowda will be recaptured soon — especially before anyone suffers the same fate as the man who was shot that fateful day in Marietta, Georgia.
UPDATE: Dowda has been captured in Macon, Georgia. Thankfully.
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Fit-to-Fat-to-Fit Blog: Pearls
I didn’t have time to run this morning. But I did. I needed to get to my work. But I exercised instead. I really should’ve put my nose to the grindstone. I put in 3.33 miles anyway.
I wasn’t procrastinating (which I’m darn good at, I might add.) No, I knew my schedule today is insane. I just HAD to get my workout in. I needed the endorphins. I needed the time to wake up and clear my head. I needed the boost I get from running.
I stumbled through the woods and ran on the Natchez Trace Parkway for a few minutes (always dangerous when it is dark and still kind of dangerous when the sun is up). I came to a clearing and could see the whole southern part of the Ross Barnett Reservoir. There, along the dam, were streetlights blazing through the blanket of inky darkness. It looked like a string of brilliant pearls.
I wouldn’t have missed it for the world.
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Tuesday Free-For-All
Good morning! Hope you have a great day. I’m having my cover of my book reshot today.
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The neighborhood
Sometimes I think the automatic garage door opener is a threat to a good neighborhood. You press a button, the door goes up, you drive in and then the door goes down. There’s no danger of you having to interact with anyone.
Saturday night, we had a block party. Our next-door neighbors cooked hot dogs; everyone else brought a dish. A football game was projected on a sheet on the side of a house and we sat outside and braved the mosquitoes. The new family down the street stopped by. The kids all ran around, played and had a good time.
It was Mississippi back before air conditioning drove us off the front porch.
Our street is in the same boat. We watch strange cars. We keep an eye out for each other’s home. Kids run in and out of the houses.
It’s the neighborhood.
It’s home.

