Ross Bjork and the path to success

Successful people pique my curiosity.  I always wonder, “What makes them tick? How did they find their path? How did they set their goals? What makes them so different than people who don’t succeed. And what makes them special?  Is it intelligence? Is it organizational ability? Is it talent?”  On my radio show,  I interviewed Ross Bjork, the new athletic director for the Ole Miss Rebels.  At 39, he is the youngest AD among the NCAA’s FBS schools. Does that qualify him as successful?  I’d say,  “Um, yes. ”

As he walked into the studio, I could see what Mike Glenn (Executive vice president of Market Development and Corporate Communications for FedEx Corp) was talking about — Bjork makes a strong first impression.  But I was curious how he got from being a fullback at Emporia State University to here, head of an S.E.C. athletic program.  My first question was, “Looking at your career and education, you obviously wanted to be an athletic director early on.  What made you decide you wanted to be one and how did you go about finding your career path?”   I’m an editorial cartoonist — a pretty tough career path — and I’m always interested to learn why people pursue tough-to-land jobs.

Bjork said that when he was in college, he thought about becoming a coach. But he noticed the guy in the suit and tie in the really nice office and learned about the duties of the school’s athletic director.  He realized that was for him. Then he took what I think is a crucial step: He studied the athletic director’s bio.  And then he studied other athletic directors’ bios.  I immediately thought of talented writer/speaker Andy Andrews. Andy was homeless, living under a pier in Orange Beach, and began going to the library to read the biographies of successful people.  His personal success soon followed. It makes sense: Learn from others’ mistakes. And learn from their successes as well.

He then tailored his education to career in sports management. He took internships and entry-level positions. And then he took another crucial step: He told his bosses that he wanted to become an athletic director. He asked to take on more responsibility and to be able to learn on the job.  He asked to be able to handle the day-in and day-out duties that an AD would do.  He worked his way up from the bottom.  Like Malcolm Gladwell talks about in his book Outliers, he put in his 10,000 hours of hard work before he became overnight success.  When he was at Western Kentucky, UCLA and Miami, he learned how to deal with contracts with corporations. He learned the art of fundraising. He handled branding. He managed people. And he did another key step: He built relationships.

Honestly, sometimes it really is who you know.  Bjork said he created a network of relationships that kept him plugged into the business.  While I was listening to him talk about how important it is to create a network, I thought about the game, “six degrees of separation with Kevin Bacon.” In Mississippi, there are two. So if you know one person, he or she may know another who knows of an opportunity you’d be perfect for.  I’d imagine Bjork’s Rolodex (an old paper way of keeping contacts, btw) is impressive.

And I bet I could have a similar discussion with Mississippi State’s Scott Stricklin.  Or any other successful person in their field.  Successful people have talent. They have energy. But they also have a plan and execute it.

So here’s what I learned from Ross Bjork yesterday:

1. If you want to do something, find other people in your field and learn all you can about them.  Read their biographies. Learn how they got to where they are.

2. Tailor your education and jobs to your chosen field. Take the internships and small jobs to get your foot in the door.

3. Once in the door, tell your boss what you want to be when you grow up and then ask for the duties that are required to do that job. Work your butt off and do those duties well. Put in your time. Make it count.

4. And last, but not least, build relationships.  It truly is who you know.

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Wednesday Free-For-All

After a 19-hour day yesterday, I’ve back at it.  How are you?

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Tax Day

The heavy rain blotted the color out of the surrounding countryside. Green trees turned to a dark, dead gray.  The tan brick buildings of the city looked even more dull.  It was easy to allow your heart to fade as well.

It was Tax Day.

He drove his battered SUV up to the Post Office, pulled through the drive-thru and felt his heart beat in the rhythm of the windshield wipers. He took a deep breath, pressed the button and rolled down the windows.

But despite the copious amounts of rain, there was sunshine in his heart.  He was paying the taxes.  The check was about to be in the mail.

Now it seems odd that a man would be so happy about paying his “fair share” or whatever some politician called the annual bloodletting.  But he viewed it differently this year than he had in the past.  He didn’t see paying taxes as a curse. For him, it was a sign he was working.   That he was gainfully employed.  He knew he was blessed to have a job.

Of course he’d have liked to keep more of his money.  He was still in savings mode after the shock of 2010 (that’s what he liked to call his pink slip).  The money he was mailing to pay for GSA parties, Secret Service prostitutes and $500 Pentagon toilet seats could have helped pad the next fall — and he knew it would come. Change occasionally allows emergencies to tag along.  Maybe he should get one of those high-paid accountants like the corporations use to avoid taxes. He laughed and got his mind right again.   As he dropped the check into the big blue mailbox, he smiled.

He was working again.

2011 had been a huge blessing.  And now, his completed tax form was proof of his hard work and success.

As he rolled up his window, he made the decision not to complain.  He put the car in gear and pulled ahead.  2012 was going to be his best year yet.  As the rain fell harder, the windshield wipers would have to work hard to keep up with his full heart.

No he didn’t like paying taxes. Not at all. But he was just glad he had a job on this rainy Tax Day.  And for that, he was thankful.

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Tuesday Free-For-All

Going to Oxford. How’s your day?

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Fit-to-Fat-to-Fit Blog: 4/17/12

Goal Weight: 195

Today is tax day. That’s a painful enough workout for me.  (Or work over).

I slept in (until 5:30 a.m.).  I’ll be on the road tonight driving back from Oxford and needed all the sleep I could get last night.  I woke up and did 50 pushups and 50 sit-ups. I’ll run five miles tomorrow morning.  My legs get the day off.

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2012 GIVE Award

Needless to say, I’m honored.

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Fit-to-Fit-to-Fat Blog: 4/16/12

Goal Weight: 195 lbs

Today’s Weight: 205 lbs.

I dreamed of working out last night.

Don’t ask.

You’d think I’d at least get something a little more enjoyable. Or naughty. But oh, no.  I am working out during my deepest slumber.

The alarm rudely went off at 4:30 a.m. (my alarm is very rude in case you are curious) and guess what? It was time for me to — you guessed it, exercise.  The radar was lit up off to our west, so I tweeted Fox 40’s morning meteorologist Lindsey Slater for an ETA on the storms.  She said that I had time to go run. Getting caught three miles from the house during an electrical storm is never fun.  So I hustled outside and began to run. Fast.

Today’s a new day for me.  My boss and coworker in the editorial department are now gone. Retired is what they call it. But my world has changed — again. I have no idea what I will be doing or if I will be doing what I am good at.  Like everything the past couple of years, I wake up to the morning wrapped in uncertainty.  So I had to get in a longer run. I needed the endorphins.

I ran 5.06 miles in 50 minutes.  I threw in lots of hills and said a few prayers along the way.  It was humid this morning, a sample of what is yet to come this summer.

I have no idea what today will bring.  My support structure is fractured.  But my legs are strong. I will succeed no matter what it thrown at me.  How do I know?  I just do.  I’m confident because I exercise.

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Monday Free-For-All

Good rainy morning to you! Hope you have a great launch of the week.

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Farewell cartoon for my editor

I’ve worked with David Hampton for the past 15 years. Every day I’d show him my roughs and he’d chose the one he wanted for the C-L editorial page. We didn’t always agree but I always respected his opinion. He has accepted an early retirement buyout and is now moving on to the next phase of his career. I know it is a tough decision for him — it’s tough for me, too.  It’s hard to lose a good editor.  But enough talk — I’ll let the cartoon say the rest:

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Sunday Free-For-All

Good morning! Hope you had a great Sunday!

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